How can I stop someone from hurting me when they don't care about my feelings?
Anonymous
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Aug 5, 2015
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get rid of them, don't stay around people give you negative thoughts and bad feelings.
you should be with people who care for you as much as you care for them, not around people hurt you.
lauradove
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Jun 20, 2015
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I personally feel that if someone is hurting you, and doesn't care about your feelings, you need to eliminate this person from your life. If they are making you feel upset or down in anyway, you need to either approach them about it and ask them why they are doing it and if in fact they even realise that they are doing it. If they realise what they have been doing or saying has been hurting you and proceed to change how they are treating you then keep them around, they're a good person and someone to take care of. However if they don't make any change from their previous behaviour, lose them. You're better than dragging around people like that.
emmiekoala
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Jul 8, 2015
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From my own personal experience, if you are fully aware that someone does not care about your feelings, there isn't a way to prevent them from hurting you. If someone does not care about you, the next best thing you can do is to help yourself and distance yourself from them so that you aren't putting yourself in harms way. If in the future they prove they have changed, you can decide whether to let them back in or not, but be cautious in doing so, because it will be just as hard the second time as it was the first to cut them out of your life.
Zebrasarcastic
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Jun 10, 2016
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If that person don't care about you why be with them..why let them harm you anymore hurt your feelings any more
avanef
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Feb 1, 2017
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You just leave them, you have are worth more than all the money in the world and you shouldn't be treated that way. You are resilient, extraordinary, intelligent and brave and you deserve that kind of treatment. It may hurt now a little bit because you might have attachments to this person or think things will get better for the two of you, but sometimes you have to accept how reality works. I do hope you are okay and you decide well for the two of you.
Anggi
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Jun 26, 2015
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I think that you can cut all ties with them and just ignore them if they ever try to hurt you again because sometimes they're only doing it for attention. However, if it gets to the point that you think you really can't handle it on your own anymore, then please please reach out for help either to your immediate friends or family or anyone that you think will be able to help you in dealing with it :)
livefree24
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Jul 22, 2015
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don't give them the power to hurt you, giving them the power to hurt you and affect your feelings is what makes it hurt. Block them from every aspect, and make yourself happy.
Anonymous
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Jul 23, 2015
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If they don't care about your feelings and your completely sure of this (as sometimes we can think that people don't care but they do its just they don't understand) then I would distance myself from this person.
AlexisSky
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Mar 30, 2017
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If the person does not care about your feelings, they will not care if they hurt you. Therefore it would benefit you to voice your concerns. If they do not change even after what you've told them, I'd advise to exclude them from your daily life if at all possible.
peacefulkat
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Apr 9, 2017
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You can stop relying on them for everything, try not to tell them about your feelings and the problems you are facing. You may talk to them and be around them but don't trust them and always take the things they have to say to heart. Try meeting new people and talking to them, don't focus on the one person who you know does not care about your feelings, someone who could hurt you in the near future.
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