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How can I stop someone from hurting me when they don't care about my feelings?

Profile: peachysunny
peachysunny on Jul 5, 2015
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get away from them if they are hurting you they should not be aloud to hurt you you deserve to be happy always
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MissaAlyssa on Jul 8, 2015
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Cut the ties with them, if they are hurting you it is best to avoid further communication with said person or it will only hurt you further
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HisBestFriend1030 on Jul 8, 2015
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We can stop this by distancing ourselves. It's hard to say that distance is good because we usually relate it to loneliness etc. But if someone is hurting you when you are around their company then what goes to say that you don't feel lonely in that sense already? We can't control other peoples actions we just have to continue to be good people and forgive and don't let the hurt consume us.
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Anonymous on Jul 8, 2015
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Just dont talk with them. It will make you sad. I have been in a situation like this and just stop talk with him/her.
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Anonymous on Jul 8, 2015
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The only way you can stop them from hurting you is to stop caring what they think about you. And if it is someone you're in a. Relationship with, that is basis to leave and I suggest you do just that.
Profile: Lois01
Lois01 on Jul 8, 2015
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I am going thru this right now and have been going thru it for a long time. I have continued on with the relationships because they are family members and because it's been happening so many times and with so many of them. I do feel quite beat up over it and pray that one day everyone of them will start being nicer again as we all were when we were younger. It's an awful feeling.
Profile: sadi1994
sadi1994 on Jul 8, 2015
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Whenever I faced this situation, I found that it helped me a lot when I distanced myself from such people. Because they were no longer around me, they couldn't hurt me by being dismissal about my feelings.
Profile: BobTheListener
BobTheListener on Jul 9, 2015
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I made sure that I shielded myself from their attacks. I changed my thoughts so that their words didn't hurt me. I made sure that whatever they said, I took it in so that it didn't hurt me a lot.
Profile: BatesBeth
BatesBeth on Jul 9, 2015
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It's important to remember that people who don't care about your feelings & who treat you in a negative way are not the type of people you want to surround yourself with. Be polite & courteous, but don't feel like you have to open up to anyone you can't trust, and if someone consistently hurts you then distance yourself from them while you decide the best step forward.
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Anonymous on Jul 10, 2015
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Ignore them, stop making them a part of your life if you feel like they arrant doing any good kick em out
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