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How can I stop someone from hurting me when they don't care about my feelings?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jan 9, 2016
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If someone is hurting me then I will ignore them completely and move on in my life as they do not care about my feelings. I don't have to care it either.
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Profile: Catt3456
Catt3456 on Jan 9, 2016
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If someone doesnt care about your feelings then you shoulndt be with them in the first place, they're not worth it, you have a lot of love to give and receive, dont lose your time with people that dont know how to appreciate that
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Anonymous on Jan 13, 2016
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What you need to do is remove that person completely from your lives. Sometimes, you're in a situation where that is not possible, so you need to tell that person that you don't want to be friends with them or associate with them, if they ignore you you need to alert your parents or whoever is in charge and make them aware of the situation
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Alyssaaaaa on Jan 17, 2016
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You can't really control another person, but you can control how you take what they do, and how much of it you will let get to you. I think it's all about how you respond to their actions, and also your perspective on it. If they don't care about your feelings, then you shouldn't care about their opinion or what they think about you as well. If they are hurting you physically, or if you are experiencing verbal or physical abuse, seek help. You do not deserve to be treated that way.
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Anonymous on Jan 28, 2016
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Lose communication with them. As hard as it may be, losing any source of connection with them will lessen the amount of pain they might cause you. It will also slowly help you move apart from them.
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Anonymous on Feb 3, 2016
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Get away from them. If some people are hurting you, get away, don't even think about it twice. When a door is closed, a window gets opened
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Anonymous on Feb 10, 2016
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If this happened to me, I would cut all ties with them. I could not accept someone hurting me that way.
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Anonymous on Jan 25, 2017
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I think the best solution to this problem is to address it first, tell them openly how their actions are affecting you, if they continue the best thing is to ignore them.
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caringJ86 on Sep 22, 2017
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The best way to stop some one from hurting your feelings is to stop giving them that much of importance. When we give importance to someone the hold that power over you. It will hurt if the feelings are not reciprocated. So stop giving them priority over other things in your life.
Profile: mthilliard
mthilliard on Nov 9, 2017
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You need to stop caring. You can't control what they think. It is in your best interest to find people that care about you and if they don't, move on.
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