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How can I stop someone from hurting me when they don't care about my feelings?

Profile: prophetmonr0e
prophetmonr0e on Jul 25, 2015
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Forgiveness is the best medicine for a hurt feeling. Especially when both parties can sit and talk like grown-ups. But when one side doesn't care how much the other hurts despite knowing what he's doing is hurtful, you might as well limit your contact with the other party.
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Profile: Moonshade
Moonshade on Aug 2, 2015
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If I believe someone doesn't care about my feelings, I try to detach with love. I am learning to trust those who are trustworthy. I can communicate with them respectfully no matter how they behave. I can try to understand their behaviour without being hurt. I value myself to not remain in a harmful situation if someone is being hurtful. I try to keep in mind that we are all learning and that people often don't intent to hurt my feelings.
Profile: enlightenedSummer73
enlightenedSummer73 on Aug 12, 2015
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Always try to tell them how their behaviour is making you feel....then if they persist im afraid distancing yoursself so that you limit their ability to hurt you would be my advice. Believe in yourself.x
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Anonymous on Aug 13, 2015
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Sometimes you just can explain people that their actions hurt you so you try to hurt yourself. You can't actually stop someone from doing that, but you can stop yourself from communication with them.
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Anonymous on Aug 14, 2015
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You can talk to them straight up, or talk to an adult if they are really harassing you. You shouldn't be under attack at any time, you deserve to be happy.
Profile: SarahLouise96
SarahLouise96 on Aug 31, 2015
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You have to work towards realising you are worth more than this person, you need to work towards a better life for you which will include leaving those who hurt you behind because e you are of most importance in your life
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Sep 22, 2015
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you can stop someone else from hurting you by ignoring their bad attitude and by believing that what that someone is doing is not the reality
Profile: AppleGreen7098
AppleGreen7098 on Sep 30, 2015
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I totally can relate to you right now... I call her my friend but she just gives me cold treatment without any reason at all, ignores me like I don't exist and it makes me think the worst about myself. But then, after realizing that I don't deserve that kind of treatment from her, I just thought to hell with it I have my own life to live and I won't waste it by dwelling on why she's doing it. Just let them be and let them realize what they are going to lose. Just live your life the way to want it to be. Don't push yourself to them cause there are always people out there ready to take you just who you are without hesitations.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Dec 23, 2015
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You need to get away from them. You should not be near someone who wants you to feel bad and should never reply to them or even pay attention to them, I know thats hard but its the best you can do.
Profile: incrediblePurple91
incrediblePurple91 on Jan 8, 2016
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The best thing to do in these types of situations is to remove yourself from them. If you notice that you are surrounded by toxic people, get yourself out of the situation! If someone takes time to put you down, they are below you and not worth your time.
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