How can I stop someone from hurting me when they don't care about my feelings?
Anonymous
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Jan 25, 2017
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Remember that you don't have to have anyone in your life that doesn't care about you. I suggest talking to them and and telling them you don't feel like you're cared about in the relationship.
marvelousBlossom86
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Mar 16, 2017
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Assert to them how they are hurting you. If they refuse to listen, then it is up to you whether to stop associating with that person. You deserve to be with people who care about your feelings. Your feelings are valid. Let no one tell you otherwise.
MathewLutzMA
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Apr 8, 2017
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If they don't care about your feeling the best way to make them stop is to avoid them altogether, they aren't worth your time or effort.
Anonymous
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Jun 25, 2017
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Don't get too close to them and don't share too much information, because sharing too much information like secrets and little things about you can often lead them closer to which they can easily hurt you. ( I don't know how to exactly put it into words so I did my best. )
SoaringWings
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Aug 20, 2017
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Simply put- you can't. If someone truly doesn't care about your feelings, then there is likely something going on with them internally that prevents them from feeling empathy towards you. Thus the hurtful comments/abuse. The best thing to do in this situation is to either remove yourself from it or work on seeing them for what they are and know that their hurtful comments are coming from a place inside THEM and are not a true reflection of YOU.
Anonymous
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Nov 26, 2017
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If someone doesn't care about your feelings, they probably don't care about you either. Having people that don't care about you in your life isn't good for your emotional state. Removing these people from your life is the best way of not letting them hurt you anymore. If you can't do that, then minimize the time you spend with that person. Another thing you can do is understand that their words are just words, and they don't mean anything. They are just saying those things to hurt you, and letting them do that is just letting them win. Realizing that having that kind of toxic person in your life just isn't worth it is a great way of not letting them hurt you anymore.
HiddenSoul1714
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Dec 29, 2017
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Well first off I want to apologise deeply to anyone who is in this situation, I believe no one deserves this. Yet one way to stop it is to completely stop letting them hurt you. This is not meant to sound selfish and I am not blaming the person, yet sometimes we have full control of the situation, we are just too attached or do not know how to detach. One main key is To completely cut off communication and see them at least as possible. They can’t do anything more if they are not given the chance, block them on any social media’s etc. Yet if you still come face to face with them, best is to distract yourself away from the conversation, or if they say something hurtful, do not answer back because that will just fuel them negatively. After all this is achieved, emotionally you need to cut them off, this is the hard part and there is no time limit for when this is achieved. I can’t tell you how to do that because some situations may differ from others, but stay strong and know that anyone who hurts you deserves to stay in the past not the future.
Anonymous
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Dec 30, 2017
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If they don't care about your feelings, it's probably safe to assume there's nothing you could do to stop them from hurting you. Take care of yourself and do what's best for you and your safety.
Br33zyS3tz
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Jul 9, 2015
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This may be troublesome to consider, the fact that some people may not care about your feelings, but the best way to protect yourself is to be strong, to be confident in yourself, to keep your head and spirits high; you know who you are, there is power in that. Don't respond to hurting comments or agitations, be the better and bigger person; demonstrate that you are above such immaturity, such ignorance and insecurity. Your power lies within you, its your job to acknowledge and display that power all the time; through thick and thin, you are characterized by this power, and with this power, no one can truly hurt you.
Toeknee
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Jul 15, 2015
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Sometimes creating space from somone who hurts you could help the situation. you would no longer be their punching bag
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