How can I stop being jealous and insecure?

Look for fulfilment internally rather than seeking external validators such as other people's approval or other people's measures of success.

Every person is special in his or her own way. You need to understand this by realizing what makes you special.

1. When you feel Jealous, put yourself in the shoes of the person, you are jealous about. Would you like someone to appreciate you or feel jealous about you? 2. When you feel insecure, turn the focus on yourself again - list the best things about you, and be appreciative of yourself. Find things that you want to improve about yourself, and find ways to do it. Think of yourself as a work-in-progress If you constantly find yourself, feeling insecure, Take time to get to know yourself. This is an important, often uncomfortable, step. It can be done by becoming okay with quiet time alone with just yourself.

Know that you are here in this world for a purpose and you are supposed to work towards your goals.Everyone is not on the same path as you.Some may be better than you and you might be better than others.There is no need to compare yourself to anybody or get jealous about it

You can always look for your best qualities and the things that make you completely unique :) You don't need to be anyone else, just be you.

Stop thinking about what other people have, Think about yourself. Make a list of everything you like about you,

You can get help for being jelous and insecure with therapy, and learn what makes you feel this way and changing it

Learn to trust and focus on making yourself feel better. Trust and confidence are tools for success.

Try to focus on yourself. Forget those around you who you feel are doing better than you are. Unless you're using them as inspiration, focus on bettering yourself, and reaching a level where there is no need to feel jealousy. Insecurities are hard to eradicate, but accepting them and trying to turn them into a positive think goes a long way

By remembering that there are lots of people who are even more poor than our condition now. So, be thankful for what we have now, is I think the right answer