How can I stop being insecure?

Surround yourself with good people, people you can trust, and then it goes all with the flow. Tell yourself some optimistic sentences

Tell a friend about your situation and your friend will always be there to help you and support you.

I think feeling insecure is a state of mind. As you can be happy, sad, angry,... I think starting a new activity can restart you mood: exciting your 5 senses help you change your mood and over time, it helps greatly. For example: eating or cooking something new, discovering new tastes, starting a new book, listening a new style of music, starting a sport, meditation, yoga... There are plenty of activity to change your state of mind. Moreover you also learn. By learning I mean growing, perceiving things differently, opening your mind. Can you still feel insecure when you are engaged in activity you like ?

I would try to beat my fears. Step by step and maybe with the help of a friend who knows about your struggles. If you can overcome those fears, you will be more confident. Even if it's hard at the beginning.

Find all the perfections about yourself, make yourself feel good, dress in clothes that look good to YOU! not anyone else, do things for yourself that make you feel good!

I sometimes feel insecure myself, but I try to replace my insecurity with gratefulness (plus a bit of ignorance is good too). Why ignorance? One of the reason of insecurity is about pleasing other people. But as a matter of fact, you can't please everyone. Just be yourself and try to think about yourself first before listening to others opinion.

By re-exploring your belief system, by being fully present in the moment. Recognizing that you are a consciousness at this instant and that the former or future selves are only illusions. Are you happy now? Are you safe now? Are you healthy now? Are you living with ease now? Is there a threat in sight? Is it rational or irrational? These are questions worth asking.

It helps to look acknowledge the things that you're good at and the things that you like about yourself. What helps even more is acknowledging the fact that you are insecure of something about yourself--that way, you'll be able to act on it and make an effort to overcome your insecurities. Talk to someone close to you, someone you trust about your insecurities so you can have an idea of how others see you, and also so they can help you overcome your insecurities. You are a beautiful person! Believe that you are. :)

When anyone be insecure, tell him/her that I am always with him/her. if insecure to other reason, I tell him/her that you should contact with police or any law person. otherwise contact them via 7cups.com.

Learn that flaws make you unique and human. If you're insecure about anything, know that everyone has insecurities and they're normal. The only way to keep them out of your head is to try and embrace them.