How can I learn to better manage my anger?
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Updated: May 7, 2019
tranquillove
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Apr 13, 2015
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If you have a hot temper, you may feel like it’s out of your hands and there’s little you can do to tame the beast. But you have more control over your anger than you think. You can learn to express your emotions without hurting others—and when you do, you’ll not only feel better, you’ll also be more likely to get your needs met.
Anonymous
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Mar 9, 2015
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What I do is when I'm angry, I count to 10, walk away from my conflict, and then I write down what happened in a journal. Later once I've cooled off I go back and look at what I wrote and reflect and it makes me realize I get angry over silly things! My anger has become so much more controllable since then.
Anonymous
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Mar 13, 2015
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Accept that the anger you feel is a natural reaction, but the way you let it impact your life and the lives of others is up to you. I always try to put any of my emotions in perspective, particularly my anger. Counting to ten and slowing my breathing is also very helpful to calm myself in the moment.
Anonymous
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May 10, 2015
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I am reading NHS Controlling anger leaflet . Anger is a feeling but to harm yourself or others isn't normal. There are ways to manage. Everyone is different so different methods applies to different people in this world. One is you can relax so much, be calm, enjoy you love to do, talk with people, never feel alone, divert your mind, to gain peace -learn to forgive people and walk away to those who hurt you. That's all I can say hope this helps you.
beautifulBabyCow10
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Jun 15, 2015
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"You can enjoy anything for ten seconds" If you count up to the number ten, it may help to ease your temper and make it more controllable.
Anonymous
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Sep 7, 2015
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What I usually do whenever I feel angry is to let my stress out in some way or form that is safe, not just for me but for others as well. What I do first is I try to catch my breath/breathe calmly. Breathing helps me clear my thoughts and helps me analyze the situation better. This helps me think of a "good" way to approach my problem and to put out an appropriate response. This whole process is definitely not easy, but I do think it is worth a try, and with enough practice it can surely help with anger management.
DipityEnigma
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Nov 30, 2015
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There's multiple ways that you can try to manage it and one way is to do breathing exercises and most commonly, remove yourself from the place or people who cause your anger bursts. Seeing a counsellor may also help as they can refer you to CBT (Cognitive Behavioural Therapy).
Anonymous
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Mar 21, 2016
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Anger comes from within as would the control of it. Practice leads to perfection; try anger management courses
Greatlistener87
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May 23, 2016
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The idea is to figure out what is triggering that anger and how to deal with that trigger. In order to deal with that anger you have to deal with the trigger 1st.
eternalPanda
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Jul 11, 2016
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You can take your anger out in so many healthy and better ways. For instance, draw out your anger, write about how you feel and throw it away, dance it out, etc etc.
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