What are the pros and cons of making friends online?
Anonymous
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Jun 5, 2019
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Pros:
-You have a wider community online, so you can meet more people and not be limited by the people you are surrounded with, who may not be ideal for you.
-If you feel lonely they can help you fill the void and feel a bit better by just having someone to chat with whenever and about whatever.
-There is often less judgement online, and if you are an introvert it can help. Plus if they are somewhere else in the world, you can open up and talk to them, after all confrontation is not really possible.
Cons:
- People who resort to going online all the time, usually have psychological issue that they may or may not be in touch with.
- They might do anything to get a friend because they are unable to get real life friends, or they are constantly unhappy and running away from something, that isn't good for you to be surrounded by.
- They can invade your privacy, by wanting to "meet you" which is usually driven by severe desperation.
-They might give you false hope, especially if you are vulnerable. They might say they "really like you" etc. to either deceive you, or because they feel very lonely, so they mistake fulfillment with "love."
Anonymous
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Jun 22, 2019
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making friends online is easy and you have someone to talk to at the click of a button. However, you never know who is behind the screen. It can be very dangerous if you are not careful. Furthermore, there is always an easy way to lose a friend that is online. However, online friends do provide you immediate support, even if you can’t see them in person. Online friends can be very fun and give you friends you would not normally have, but you have to watch out for the ones that could be dangerous. As seen, having online friends has many pros, but also many cons.
Efini06
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Jul 4, 2019
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The pros:
You can be friends with people from all over the world
It's easier to strike up a conversation. If you're a shy person, it's probably easier for you to approach people in the online world
It's easier to open up. Many people find it easier to share things with their online friends because they feel more comfortable typing the words than saying them.
Cons:
There is no body language and intonation. Communication without body language and intonation can lead to misunderstandings. Sadly, emoticons don't always help
You can lose yourself in the online world. Online friendships can get addicting. You might end up abandoning your real-life friends in favor of your online acquaintances.
You can be taken advantage of. Are you really sure that they are who they seem to be? Maybe you've really found yourself a great friend, and maybe you're just being catfished.
Itsokay091
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Jul 13, 2019
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Pros - 1. we get to know the heart first.
2. Confidently share our feelings without the fear of being judged.
3. Get to meet some wonderful souls sitting miles away from us.
4. Get to know about different cultures.
Cons -1.if they decide to abandon you someday , you would not get the chance to say a goodbye and unsaid goodbyes are very hard to deal with. Then it feels like virtual world is a mask behind which there is no face.
2. There could be people pretending to be someone they are not.
3. Long distance sucks. Sometimes it's impossible to meet them in person.
FlightlessSongBird
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Jul 19, 2019
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They can get you through some very tough times. I have had some very close online friends for the past 7 years and they’ve been very important to my mental health. Sometimes it’s much easier making friends online as opposed to real life due to geographic location or other restrictions but the online community can exist in your home, accessible by your devices. The online community exists in every time zone and is a very diverse array of individuals that can be exactly what you’re looking for in a friend as opposed to looking for specific characteristics in the limited amount of people near you.
Anonymous
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Aug 8, 2019
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Pros are you have new friends to talk about things you like and enjoy. You really don't have to worry about making an effort to get dressed up or spend money going out with them. You get to talk to them when you want to. I guess there is less judgement as you can say things online or be a bit different to your outside persona.
Cons. They may live in a different country so different time zones mean chatting would be hard as well as meeting up in the future. You may offend someone and not mean to because of how you've written a message and how it sounds could be misinterpreted.
Anonymous
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Aug 16, 2019
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When it comes to pros, the one I think of first is that generally you won't be afraid to speak openly of your ideals or principles. This leads to a more "genuine" friendship, where you're not fearful of what society in general might think of what you're saying. Another pro that comes to mind is your ability to contact each other quite easily.
A con for me would be the inability to create binding experiences out there, such as camping together, going out for a drink, etc.
A second con is regarding the anonymity granted with online encounters, sometimes people may exploit us by assuming the role of someone we'll be fond of.
AaronBurnsXXX
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Aug 17, 2019
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The pros of making friends online are that you can listen and support each other if you need too. Also you have someone to talk to and not feel alone. You can also learn new methods from them in how to deal with certain situations. The cons are unless you physically me them you do not know who you are really talking to. You could be a child thinking you are talking to a child your own age but really it is an adult and that adult is acting as a child and wants for example explicit photos of that child.
TheHelpfulPillow
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Sep 16, 2019
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Let's start with the pros.
Well, they can't stand you up if you meet online, and they can't physically harm you. If they say anything mean, you can remove them from your life immediately with a single "Block button".
- You can learn about new cultures, ways of lifes.
- You control how much personal information they learn about you.
As for cons, well they might not be who they say they are. They might try to scam you, or heck even go as far as hacking your computer.
They might try to message other people you know or impersonate you or a friend.
Anonymous
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Oct 26, 2019
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Talking to anonymous friends about your troubles makes it much easier; they can’t judge you, they can only help you through your hard times. You have to take care of yourself though. Internet security is a must. But other than that, your online friends can listen to you, help you, guide you, laugh with you, and many more. Your online friends are her to make sure you have an amazing time and a wonderful life filled with blessings. If there is any way your internet friends can help achieve that, trust me they will. I must repeat this because it is of the utmost importance, you have to secure yourself: don’t share your real name, address, phone number, or meet up with any of your online friends. This is only for your safety and security and nothing else; so make sure you follow the rules and enjoy your time online.
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