Why is my son gay?

he was born that way dear the best thing to do is love and support him through it all . Hes not sick or broken hes human :)

Because he was meant to be different.

these things happen naturally and we have no control over how we feel.as we hang out with people and get closer, our dependence, emotional attachment, care and concern get greater and greater until one day we wake up and realise it is called Love.

Sometimes, people go through thing that may cause them to feel different about a certain sex. Your son may have gone through a very traumatic experience which cause him to no longer have attraction to females. Or he just may simply find men fascinating and decide that a woman isn't a right fit for him.

He can't choose his sexuality, just like you can't choose that you're straight either. That's just how he is

It's biological. He is still.your son. And the only thing can do is show support and love. Accept him

I counter that question with yet another question: why are you straight? All sexualities are completely natural and normal. Also keep in mind that sexuality is fluid, especially throughout adolescence. Either way, you should love and respect him no matter what.

he likes men

There are many reasons why some people think this is but no matter whether people think they are born that way or it is a choice it is obviously a part of them. As someone who is gay I do not think that I chose to be this way because I have tried to force myself to be something I am not and it does not work. Your son just falls for people of the same gender which does not even change who he is, it just means that you learned something new about him.

There really is no why. You're son was born gay and I hope that you can accept him. He needs that from you because you are his parent. Parents are supposed to to support their child with their decisions and their traits that they are born with.