Why is my son gay?

From personal experience I can say that my sexuality is integral part of who I am similar to my ethnicity, skin color, and personality. I believe people are born with their sexuality, and it's ok if your son is gay. As difficult it is for your son to love himself, I know how difficult it can be for you as a parent. All parents want is to make sure their kids are going to be safe; you both can work together and support each other.

He was born that way. There is nothing you can do about it. You can only love and support him. Show him that it doesn't matter and that you still love him.

The exact same reason he has blue/brown/green eyes. He was born that way. He cannot change it, no-one can it is the way he is. It's the same reason he is tall/short or sporty or smart etc.

While this is being heavily debated some scientific studies will claim that he was born with a predisposition to being attracted to the members of the same sex.

It is just the way he is. It's part of a spectrum and we're all on it. Sexuality is different for everyone and that doesn't mean we should stop loving them. He is still your child and that will never change

Because it's how he is. Have you ever been asked "why are you straight ? No. So, I don't see why other sexualities have to bring choices

why he is gay is because its how he was born and what he wants in his life. we dont choose to be gay, straight, bi, black, white, green, blue. we are born this way. maybe a better question is, do you accept his decision? do you still love him the same? is he any different today than he was yesterday? try and support him. thats the best thing you can do for him.

Does it matter? I don't want to just disregard that it doesn't make a difference to you, it does. But really, if your son is gay then he's gay. He can't choose who he loves just as much as you cant choose who you love. I know it might be difficult for you to get used to this idea, but that's just who your son is. And I'm sure he's happy. There's nothing wrong with him, he hasn't changed. This is who he always was and always will be.

Because that's how he was born. There isn't a reason on why someone is homosexual. It's the way their mind functions and works.

your son is gay because he is, I suggest you stop asking why and accept it. It may be hard on you but you are selfish to only think about how hard it is on you and not how hard it is on him.