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Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Sep 17, 2015
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There isn't really an answer as to why anyone is gay. Personal experiences may shape a person's sexual identity but there isn't really a way to change this.
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Profile: Ykris
Ykris on Sep 18, 2015
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why is your son gay is not the question you should be asking yourself, its like asking why is my son blond? why does he have green eyes? it's because he was made that way. being gay is not a choice, it's a given. it should not change anything for you about the way you love your child, he's still the same person. It's understandable if you're confused, thin king something like why is he gay now? what change will this bring? you need to remember, your son needs his parent's support and loves you just like before you knew he was gay and you should love and support him just the same. all the best to you.
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Anonymous on Sep 18, 2015
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No one can answer that with 100% accuracy. Some people will say he was born that way, while others will say that's just how his sexuality developed.
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Anonymous on Sep 19, 2015
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People do not chose to be gay and often it is a difficult life circumstance that many struggle to come to terms with. More importantly seek answers about what would make your son happy and how the two of you can continue to have a loving relationship.
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Anonymous on Sep 20, 2015
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He was born that way. Love is not a choice. Everyone is lovely the way they are and I know he would appreciate your support.
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Anonymous on Sep 23, 2015
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He feels that way. Would you ever ask why someone is straight? No. He likes boys and not girls it's not too big of a deal.
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Anonymous on Sep 23, 2015
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Because he was born that way. It may be a hard thing to go through, but you need to understand that he didn't choose this and it's not a bad thing.
Profile: Staystrongforme
Staystrongforme on Sep 24, 2015
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Your son is gay because that is how he was born. Contrary to popular beliefs you aren't brought up gay, you are born with your sexuality predetermined. No matter your Opinion on the matter remember that you need to be supportive because he is still your son
Profile: Probius
Probius on Sep 24, 2015
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You're son is gay because that is a part of his identity and who is his. This is simply his sexual orientation, it says nothing of his character one way or the other.
Profile: Laena
Laena on Sep 26, 2015
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Because he is. There really isn't anything else to it. You didn't do anything to make him that way. It's like asking "Why is he a boy?" or "Why does he have brown eyes?" He just does, because that's how he was born. If you'd like to talk to someone about it, connect with a listener here on 7 Cups. We're always here for you.
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