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Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Aug 20, 2015
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Gay isn't a choice. It's like asking "Why is my hair red?" You can dye it brown to cover it up, but in the end your hair is alway red. There really is no "why" he just is. Support him and tell him you love him! It can be tough to come out! Trust me, I know.
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Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Aug 21, 2015
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Some people are just born that way, just like a girl is born a brunette or a blonde. There's nothing you can do about it, but embrace it and support him. Show him that you love him no matter what. Family is the most important thing, after all.
Profile: GoodVibes8
GoodVibes8 on Aug 21, 2015
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This is a common question for straight people to ask about gay people. "Why is ___ gay?". But the answer is really simple: They are gay for the same reason that you are straight, they can't help it. That's just the way he is. I hope the bond between you and your son is okay! Good luck. :)
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Anonymous on Aug 21, 2015
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That's how he has been born. It's not anyone's fault, no one turned him gay, he just is. Accept him and support him
Profile: starrycharlie
starrycharlie on Aug 23, 2015
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There is no reason - it is just the way he is! He is still the same person, even if he is not straight.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Aug 23, 2015
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Your son is gay because he might not have a good relationship with girls. He might feel odd around them. But around the same sex he feel complete and happy. And you as a parent should accept him the way he is no matter what. He is still your son. And deep inside you love him and he loves you.
Profile: RockHopper88
RockHopper88 on Aug 27, 2015
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Your son is gay because that's just the way he is. As a parent, the most important thing we can do is unconditionally love our children for who they are. If you live some where where being gay is not accepted, your support is especially needed.
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Anonymous on Aug 28, 2015
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Because your son likes men they way straight men like women. And because your son is born that way.
Profile: teaofvanilla
teaofvanilla on Aug 28, 2015
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Because he loves someone of the same gender, just like you love your spouse.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Aug 30, 2015
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He has an attraction to boys, nowadays it is common for people to come out as gay. He may have shown signs of being heterosexual throughout his life, but deep down he has always had the attraction to the same sex. He is now much more confident to be who he is.
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