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Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Oct 23, 2015
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This is the way she was born. It is not a state or phase, it is the way she is. There is nothing wrong or unnatural with your daughter. She is still the same girl she was before. She has always been a lesbian. Now that you know doesn't change her.
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Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Oct 23, 2015
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It's normal for a parent to ask himself/herself this way. It's not a choice, it's just who they are. By asking your daughter the same question, with a friendly curiosity, thing will be much better.
Profile: DanielRiot
DanielRiot on Oct 24, 2015
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because she likes girls. she is no different then anyone else. she just likes girls. she is no less or better of a person for it. she is who she is.
Profile: Probius
Probius on Oct 24, 2015
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Your daughter is a lesbian because this is the sexual orientation that she was born with. This says nothing about her moral character one way or the other.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Oct 25, 2015
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Your daughter is most likely a lesbian because that's how she was born. That's how her mind was made when she was born.
Profile: zaix
zaix on Oct 25, 2015
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I don't think sexuality is a choice or a birth defect, or something you're born with. I don't believe that your parent could have done something wrong to make you a lesbian, or you didn't wake up one day and be like oh i'm gay, or to automatically be lesbian when you were born, it's something we grow into and it's something that should be accepted, honestly, I don't know why your daughter is a lesbian, it's something that happens, and if you find it hard, think about your daughter, what do you think she feels like? Don't you think her going through this is way harder than you going through what she is.
Profile: delicateDreamer16
delicateDreamer16 on Oct 25, 2015
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Your daughter is lesbian because that is the way she was born. It may be hard to understand sometimes but you don't choose your sexuality. Scientists have been able to prove that sexuality is something developed in the womb.
Profile: Braveheart66
Braveheart66 on Oct 25, 2015
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because she is born that way. that does not make her any less of the good person that you know her to be. love her irrespective.
Profile: Brillance
Brillance on Oct 28, 2015
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Because she likes women, and there is nothing wrong with that. We are all different and amazing in our own way
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Oct 28, 2015
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Let's start by saying. She didn't choose to be a lesbian. Some of us are born attracted to the same sex. There is actually a huge scale. Where sexuality and gender identity fall all over a spectrum. So to answer why she is a lesbian isn't my place. I don't know why. All I know is she was born a lesbian. But she will always be the daughter you raised.. Same memories. Same love. Different spouse than you had thought possibly.. But I promise her sexuality doesn't change her love for you..
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