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Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Sep 19, 2015
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She was born that way. People are born their sexualities, and you can't change who someone is. You are born gay/lesbian/trans/any other sexual orientation or gender.
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Profile: scumkin
scumkin on Sep 20, 2015
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She is a lesbian she was born that way, plain and simple. It is not a choice, it is the way she is.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Sep 21, 2015
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Sexuality is a tough topic to tackle. She's a lesbian because of a thousand possible reasons. In my personal experience, I am a lesbian because no one understands women like women, so therefore, I pursue women. I am attracted to people that know what I feel and relate to me in so many ways, as a woman. Your daughter may or may not feel the same way as I do, but that reason is very common among homosexuals. If you accept your daughter's sexuality, then it's best not to question it. She's a lesbian because she's a lesbian :)
Profile: Char55x
Char55x on Sep 24, 2015
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Because she likes girls. Simple as that. There is nothing you, or anyone can do that can change that fact, and so you may as well accept her for it.
Profile: Emily619
Emily619 on Sep 24, 2015
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Your daughter is a lesbian because that is her sexuality preference. Support her in that. It took her LOTS of courage to come out.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Sep 26, 2015
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It means that she is attracted to only girls, not boys. This is perfectly normal, contrary to what other parents may think. As a teenager growing up, I found many others finding out their sexuality, and come to identify themselves as lesbian, gay, asexual, bisexual, etc. Perhaps these terms may not be familiar to you, which is totally fine!
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Sep 27, 2015
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She has realised that she has an interest in woman, not men. There is never a reason why but I'm sure she would want your support.
Profile: BeFair
BeFair on Sep 30, 2015
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Even if there are reasons for why a person is a lesbian, they're probably not bad ones. There are plenty of people living among loving family members who still tend to be attracted to the same-sex. Sexual orientation is completely out of a person's control, it's completely normal to be a lesbian. What may seem abnormal to you is probably the most normal thing in the world to your daughter. Just remember one thing. If you expect your daughter to be with a man, you are pushing him into the arms of a person who she does not want to be with on any healthy level.This is a very cruel type of abuse. Your daughter needs and wants your love and support more than most of the things she wants in life.
Profile: Origamidragons
Origamidragons on Oct 3, 2015
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Honestly, she probably doesn't know herself. There is no particular reason why sexual orientation goes one way or the other. People are just born with that trait.
Profile: Kaysha
Kaysha on Oct 4, 2015
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That's like your daughter asking 'Why is my mother straight?' there is no explanation, it's just the way you're born, and you can't change it. Only support it.
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