Why is my daughter a lesbian?

Your daughter is a lesbian because she was born a lesbian. It is who she is. It has nothing to do with your parenting style, choices, or anything you have done. She didn't make a choice either and this wasn't caused by anything she or anyone else did. She is still the wonderful, beautiful daughter you raised her to be :)

maybe it's because of the environmen?t friends? ... Or.. *I'm not judging you I'm a lesbian too and this is my reason* maybe it has something to do with you . on how you treat your child. You can atleast talk to them even for a short time . talk to them seriously but without any interruptions/shouting. .. or maybe she is suffering from something *sh'e sick/she has a problem on her own* that's why she decides to rebel and to do that :

It's not a choice, you can't really say why. It's genetics, it's how she's born. It's like asking, "Why are your eyes green?" or "Why are you 5 feet tall?" You didn't do anything to make her a lesbian, it's just how she is. Just remember to support her because this can be a very tough time for her, and make sure to support her no matter what. Make sure to tell her you love her, and mean it. But my final answer is there really is no answer. It's not a choice.

Coming from a lesbian teenager your daughter might be confused herself and doesn't know why she feels this way and supporting her is the best thing you can do is not worry about 'why' but rather 'what you can do to support her' and make her feel most comfortable in her own skin. It's just the way she feels and a happy daughter is much better than a miserable daughter.

Because that is the way she was made or she was born if you do not believe in a creator. She does not hate you. She is not rebelling. She is who she is.

you cannot choice your sexuality. Everybody is born differently and it jut so happens that your daughter prefers girl. it doesn't make her any less human.

People are attracted to the same sex. People are attracted to the opposite sex. People are attracted to both and all sexes. All are okay and are normal.

It is just who she is . It is ok to be gay or lesbian . She is still the same daughter you know but now you know she likes girls. Why is she a lesbian I think there is no reason she just is .

Your daughter is a lesbian because that is who she finds mentally, physically, sexually, an emotionally attractive. Much like you are whatever sexual orientation you are.

I don't think anyone can give you a definite answer. We still don't know why certain people are gay while others aren't. But why are you asking the question exactly? I understand it can be a really hard thing to accept, I also understand that you might be scared or hurt right now. And that doesn't make you a bad parent. The important thing here is that this is not something that can change. Your daughter never chose to be gay, it's also not your fault, but that's just how things are. And what you're probably gonna have to do now is accept this reality and get used to the idea. I've seen too many parents loose the respect of their (gay) children because they tried to change who they were to not warn you about it. Communicate, get informed, ask questions, focus on the love you have for your daughter, and things will be alright.