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Why do I always feel like I am the wrong sexuality?

Profile: Shazwan
Shazwan on Nov 3, 2015
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Well, I personally feel that there is no such thing as a wrong sexuality. A sexuality is what it is, and thus there is no wrong or right. You may feel that you probably find yourself in the stage of exploration, but just remember that it is essential in determining your final route! Talk to anyone if it is of any help, cheers!
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Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Apr 7, 2015
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Because the society we live in has ingrained heteronormativity into us pretty much from birth. Most people experience being told that being anything but heterosexual is 'different' and that usually equals 'strange' in their young minds and then later results in feeling bad about their own sexuality. ( Unless this question is coming from someone who is unsure of their sexuality- in which case you might need to experiment a little and find what's right for you.)
Profile: HealingLotus
HealingLotus on May 18, 2015
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What you feel tells you something about yourself. If you feel your the wrong sexuality, maybe you are.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jun 7, 2015
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You could have just not found a label that fits you. Or maybe labels aren't for you all together. You could try researching different sexualities (there are more than you think), and see if you feel comfortable calling yourself any of them. If so, you could get in touch with others who feel that way and learn more about yourself.
Profile: HamRadio4Life
HamRadio4Life on Aug 10, 2015
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Sometimes we are faced with tough decisions about so many things. Those who have confusion about their sexuality feel stress even more so than someone who isn't confused about it. Step back, take a deep breath and do some soul searching. You'll find the answer you need!
Profile: QuidditchWitch
QuidditchWitch on Nov 2, 2015
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Honestly? Because you simply cannot put a name, or a label, on such complex feelings. You don't fall in love with a certain type of human - or a gender - but a person themselves. It isn't always clear how they're going to manifest.
Profile: LavenderKittenHaru
LavenderKittenHaru on Mar 3, 2015
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There are not any wrong or right sexualities. All that matters is what you like and how you feel. Be proud of who you are and never let anyone make you feel bad because of it. Be strong, we will always support you!
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I'm not 100% sure that I understand the question but when I was younger I identified as bisexual and it never really felt right, after a while of learning about all the different sexualities I came across Pansexuality. I would think that the reason you feel you are the wrong sexuality is because you haven't found a sexuality that matches your feelings yet.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Sep 14, 2015
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If you feel that, keep exploring yourself. there is nothing wrong with exploring and discovering (or not) that what you believed to be (because of what society "imposes") was wrong. I can be with you in this path.
Profile: PaperGhostie
PaperGhostie on Dec 14, 2015
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There is a great chance that you are or you simply have not discovered that sexuality at this point in time.
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