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Why can't I love only one gender?

Profile: Mswim72
Mswim72 on Dec 20, 2015
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Loving more than one gender isn't something to be ashamed of it's something to be proud of you are different in a good way and that is a good thing.
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Profile: birdwatcher444
birdwatcher444 on Dec 22, 2015
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There isn't anything wrong with loving more than one gender. People are born with their sexualities, and it isn't something you can change, nor should you want to! There are many people who are pansexual, bisexual, polysexual, etc. :)
Profile: daisdais
daisdais on Dec 27, 2015
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Theres nothing wrong with loving multiple genders, it's just the way some people are! Think about it this way, why are we raised to only love one gender?
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jan 4, 2016
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Love is not a strict, ordered thing. People can love any number of other people, animals, music, art, etc. There may be that one song that makes you feel so unbelievably positive that you almost want to cry. There may be a pet that you have that you love to the moon and back. Love is not fixed to one gender, species, or even life-force. I find it silly for people to discriminate against others of different orientations because love is not at all something you can easily control. It happens, regardless of any limiting factors present. To help you feel more comfortable, you could research some bi-/poly-/pan-friendly communities and see what others think of the situation.
Profile: digitalwitness
digitalwitness on Feb 22, 2016
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Because there are so many beautiful genders and that would be a shame to not have a chance of loving more than one! ;)
Profile: YellowCurtains1
YellowCurtains1 on Mar 7, 2016
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Because it's the way you are - simple. You can't change who you love, and if that means loving more than one gender then go for it.
Profile: DiamonddogLikesNutella
DiamonddogLikesNutella on May 30, 2016
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It isn't a bad thing, you are either bisexual,polysexual or pansexual. It is perfectly normal to feel like this. If you are younger you might just be bi-curious and may settle on a gender as you become older.
Profile: Greatlistener87
Greatlistener87 on Jul 4, 2016
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You could be bisexual, nothing is wrong with being bisexual as long as your happy with the sexual choice that you have made and accept that that is who u are.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jan 31, 2017
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Because, as a normal person, you have your preferences and likes. There's a big variety, and you decide to give a chance to each option, which is good because at the end you'll know what you exactly like. And if you like both, it's okay. Those are your preferences, that sometimes we are born with, and can't be changed. But that doesn't mean that it's wrong. At all.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Mar 27, 2017
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You can never force your self to stop loving something you love. It's like asking why can't I only love one animal, if you love all of them know one can hold you back.. Cause that's what your heart wants. If you love both genders, you love both genders. Know one can ever stop you. Think as it like your favourite thing to eat, you enjoy.. Right? Just enjoy it. Can be hard if people are putting you down about it but put that be hide you and think this is who I am, know one is ever going to stop me. It will show the person your strangth and they will most likely fear that. There is nothing wrong with it at all.
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