Why are the chances of finding someone to love in the LGBT community so slim ?

Depending on the public reception of the LGBT community in a particular area, members of the community may find it safer to keep their identities hidden as revealing themselves can put them in danger of being ostracized from the general community of their area. One example of this being the case is in countries that adopt conservative viewpoints that are not in favor of the LGBT community. While it is safer for individuals to remain hidden, it also creates an issue if someone wants to reach out to this community for support or acceptance as that person may not be able to find anyone as a result of people keeping their identities hidden from the public.

I don't necessarily know this answer but it is probably that people may be shy or embrassed at exposes themselves or confessing that they are gay, lesbian, bisexual, or transgender. I think no one will own up to it because they are afraid of what family members or friends may say. Not everyone is bold and some are just confused. Fear is the number one killer in our society, it really takes bold and courageous people to own up and stand for what they think or approve of. As I stated, I don't necessarily know all the answers but I pray this helped a little.