Why am I gay? I hate myself.

Why am I gay? I am gay because I fell in love with someone of the same gender I am. I cannot change my feelings towards the person I love, no matter how it effects my life. I hate myself because my father hates gays and I don't want him to hate me. I don't want to be oited by my family nor my friends, yet I want to stay true to myself.

please do not hate your self for being gay. there is nothing wrong with it and it is perfectly natural. we are all born to love, love is free and has no limitations . Falling in love with a person from the same sex doesn't make you abnormal and doesn't make you a bad person . please realize that in order to live happy and a fulfilling life you're going to have accept your self the way you are . there will always be those who will disagree but we should not let other peoples perceptions define us and as Rupaul says if you cant love your self how in the hell you going to love somebody else can I get an amen up in here. sending virtual hugs :)

It's okay that you are gay it is not your fault that it is your sexuality. You shouldn't hate yourself! It doesn't change who you are

You can't hate yourself for being gay. It's who you are. You can deny it to yourself and your family and friends, but you probably won't live a happy life. Before coming out (if you do come out) you should come to terms with it yourself and begin to love yourself again. It won't be easy, but you will be happy again.

You are gay because it is your sexuality preference. Do NOT hate yourself over it. It is not anything that deserves hate. If you do hate yourself due to being gay, talk to a close friend about it.

You are gay because you were made that way. Don't hate yourself for being who you are its okay to be gay.

You should never hate yourself over what you want. Don't let society change you. You're you, and you're a great person. Look for the positives in your life, and everything will get better.

Currently, is believed that being gay is not as the result of negative circumstances. There are millions of homophobic habitats on the planet right this moment, and some of them are professionals who really want to cure homosexuality. If homosexuality was a disease, and if there was a cure, they would have found it out by now. So try to enjoy your life, because you deserve to be happy. :)

You shouldn't hate yourself. Love yourself for who you are, because there's no reason that this happened other than it just did. Please give yourself a chance to be happy :)

you are gay because it is in your genes there is no need to hate yourself for it, same way i am transgender, it will take time to accept yourself and its not easy to either