Dylannerdy15
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Nov 5, 2015
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Don't hate yourself, there's nothing wrong with you. You're gay because like most people you're born this way. I know it's difficult growing up knowing you should like the opposite sex and then realising you don't, but you've already accepted the fact you are gay. When I realised I was gay, I spent two years in denial trying to pretend I wasn't gay and hating myself and just not accepting, but now I accept it and I'm so happy about it. You just have to get used to the idea, and it's not so bad. Maybe try saying I'm gay to yourself to get used to the idea of saying it and accepting it. Whisper it and after a while try say it louder and keep saying it louder until you feel comfortable saying it. By then you should have accepted it. I really hope you feel better about this after a while. Just hang in there.
Anonymous
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Nov 6, 2015
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You were born this way. You should never feel like you hate yourself because of something you cannot change about yourself. You are beautiful and amazing, regardless of your sexuality
Anonymous
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Nov 6, 2015
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gay isn't a choice, pal. sexual orientation is a natural part of who we are. Some of us are born straight; others gay, lesbian, bisexual or gender-queer. it is NOTHING to be ashamed of, if anything, you should embrace it, pal!
Anonymous
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Nov 7, 2015
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There is no reason to hate yourself for being gay. I understand its frustrating. Eventually, things will fall in place. Its not your fault.
Anonymous
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Nov 8, 2015
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Being gay is nothing to be ashamed of. Nobody can tell you any differently. You're a beautiful human being and your sexual preference happens to be the same gender. Today, the LGBTQ+ community is taking a stand for equal rights and I'd say that they're doing a pretty damn good job. Don't hate yourself for something that isn't wrong in the first place, be the best you and you'll be happy. I promise.
hopefulBraveheart29
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Nov 11, 2015
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You are gay because thats the way you were born. I know being gay can sometimes be hard, but you have to be kind to yourself. You have to accept yourself. There is nothing wrong with you.
CastleIrwell
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Nov 11, 2015
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You are homosexual, just like others are heterosexual, bisexual, asexual, and more! It's the same reason. You are born the way you are. Your body and mind is the way it is because of how you are born. You should not feel compelled to hate yourself because you are attracted to the same sex. Love is universal. There is never anything wrong with healthy love. xxx
Anonymous
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Nov 14, 2015
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I believe you are just fall in love with someone who is the male sex. You don't need to worry about, you are normal, just like everybody does.
EricM
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Nov 15, 2015
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Being gay is a part of who you are. Instead of hating it, or yourself, embrace it. You can't change it, so learn to love yourself. You have worth, and are valued.
Anonymous
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Nov 15, 2015
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Being homosexual can be hard, especially when living in an homophobic environment. Hating ourselves is never the answer, what we can do is trying to improve the environment we live in and find support in ourselves and in our loved ones.
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