Why am I gay?

I don't think you chose to be a homosexual. It's not wrong to have feelings for someone of the same sex, and sometimes society likes to make you feel like it is. What you feel is the same love that I do, that everyone else does. It's no different, and you shouldn't feel like it is.

Being gay isn't a choice it happens at birth, but don't let that bother you, you are you and you can't change that:)

Why questions are the hardest questions in the human language. To really answer any why question you have to know to what use the person is going to put the answer. If a 5 year old asks why people get sad they may be happy with the answer, "it's just the way we are made." If a 25 year old asks the question, "Why am I gay?" and wants to know how sexuality comes to be it is a different thing than then same 25 year old asking "Why am I gay?" and really meaning "Will I be happy?" I asked the question "Why am I gay?" and "Why me?" often at one point. I really wanted to know if I was going to be okay. I hope you can find an answer in there. Every person deserves to be happy. I wish I could answer the question why for you and have it answer all the questions you have about who you are and if you are loved. I have never met a person who struggled with "why?" that didn't deserve to be loved. We look within ourselves to understand why when sometimes the answer is who is beside us while we are asking.

I don't know, but you should embrace that you're gay, there's nothing wrong with being gay and it's important to love yourself for who you are because you are amazing.

I don't choose to be gay. My sexuality is what it is, and it has been that ever since I was born. I don't choose to be pansexual. I choose to embrace it, I choose to label it, and I choose wwho specifically I pursue. But I don't choose to be gay. Isn't that great?

It's neurological. You were born that way. Puberty happens, latent desires emerge. All fine and proper.

contrary to many beliefs their is no condition as gayzim (not a word i know) you know it never ceases to amaze me why people would ask this. seriously why is someone straight? why would you love? its like questioning your life which you are, who makes you smile like an idiot,trust me the question should be why cant people just be happy for me? not, why am i gay? to hell with what people think seriously love is love and don't torture with the question its just depressing for you, however ask your self, are you gay because you are in love with someone or because you lust on them? if its lust then probably you would be worried and relieved because lust will not sustain more than a few months at most, but if you are in love with someone be glad, since not alot people can say they loved in life, no matter the gender.

You were born with it. Theres no decision when it comes to these things. If you are having trouble coping with this talking to a trusted adult would be good.

There are many different ideas and arguments that have been made that can explain this. It is all in opinion, really. Mainly, people believe that they were born gay and it is in their DNA. Some believe that is how they were raised or were developed to be. Some believe that it could just be a phase and you can grow out of it. This, however, is less likely to happen. It is not your fault for being gay. There is nothing wrong with being gay. Be happy for being you and don't listen to those close minded people.

You're gay because that's just the way that you are don't be ashamed there is nothing wrong with you