When should I come out of the closet?
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Updated: Feb 2, 2021
PhoenixMozza
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May 8, 2015
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when you feel ready and comfortable, and only you can know when that is :)
NYCInspired
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Jul 7, 2015
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Whenever you are ready. There is nothing more liberating than knowing that you can be who you want to be. Don't be afraid to tell anyone, because they will love you just the way you are. You have to give people time to embrace it, it's not an easy subject to bring up or to accept. Be yourself, that's what you're good at.
Dan528
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Aug 4, 2015
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Nobody can answer this question but you. The choice to come out is yours, and yours alone. There is never a perfect time for this.
HamRadio4Life
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Aug 10, 2015
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Ask yourself if you feel comfortable and strong enough to face any reaction you may receive. You are who you are! No one can change that, nor should they try. Your family will love you no matter what and your friends will love you no matter what. Just because you are gay/lesbian doesn't change you as a person. Your sexuality does not define you in the slightest!
Anonymous
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Aug 11, 2015
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This is such a difficult question to answer. But I feel as if I should come out when I am 100% sure that it's the way I feel.
blissfulRainfall14
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Aug 31, 2015
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Come out the closet when you are most comfortable , never rush it. The right time to come out will come! :)
Morpheus
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Sep 26, 2015
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Whenever you feel the time is right. Make sure you are comfortable with it before you allow everyone to know about it. You want to be sure that you are very confident and comfortable before coming out about it.
Anonymous
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Nov 10, 2015
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when you are ready. you shouldn't feel pressured to do anything you don't want to and only you get to decide
CastleIrwell
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Nov 11, 2015
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You should come out of the closet when you are ready for people to know. You don't have to tell everyone at once. It takes some people years to tell everyone. Coming out to a good friend, family member, or trusted person first can help you get a start on telling others, but it does not have to be right away.
supportiveCupcake42
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Dec 14, 2015
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This is the infamous question I'm so passionate about.
This step in your life will happen when you decide you want it to. Don't feel rushed in having to come out, take your time, feel around until you know that you are sure this is how you feel. Wait until the stress and tension ease away in the house. Make sure you have a group of friends that support you and have your back. No matter how ready you are, you will be nervous. Make sure you stay cool, calm, and collected so your relatives can take in the news because it will be huge!
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