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When is the best time to tell co-workers that you are gay?

Profile: Briana98
Briana98 on May 31, 2015
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I don't think it's really necessary to tell people unless you feel they have a right to know. I personally have only told close friends about my sexuality. (I'm going to assume we're talking co-workers you're friendly with) With me, it usually comes out as a series of jokes and I just wait for someone to ask if I actually am gay. That, or just casual comments such as commenting on how good someone looks. For example, for some reason straight guys don't normally comment on how good other guys look, so that'll probably be a red flag for your co-workers if you're a guy. If you're a girl, I just stick to the jokes.
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Profile: HexHoneycomb
HexHoneycomb on Feb 29, 2016
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Only come out when you are comfortable and you truly trust that they will accept you. Even when you think they are understanding, they might not be. Be prepared for any situation, but always accept who you are.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Apr 18, 2016
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I feel like, you shouldn't have to tell your coworkers you are gay. You know what I mean, People dont come to me at work and say they are straight. Your sexual identity is your personal business.
Profile: purplesocks
purplesocks on May 23, 2016
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The best time to tell your co-workers that you are gay is when you are most comfortable. There really is no pressure to tell anyone besides who you deem appropriate.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jul 25, 2016
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Whenever you are ready to be out in the open with everyone. Coming is hard but remember their are other who have done before you so you can too!
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Anonymous on Oct 17, 2016
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Whenever you feel comfortable with them. don't feel pressured to tell them right away if you are unsure.
Profile: fruitCat
fruitCat on Sep 26, 2017
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When you're comfortable with telling them, and at no other time. You are under no pressure to tell anyone your sexual orientation, so make sure you find a time when you think it is right and you are happy to tell them, and that will be a good time to tell them (maybe not when they're busy, though, just to make it a little easier)
Profile: lovingTree37
lovingTree37 on Apr 2, 2018
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Whenever it's probably not a big deal to them if they're talking about partners just casually slip in by talking about a partner/ex of their own and they'll get the hint
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jun 11, 2018
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When you feel comfortable. There really is no best time to tell anyone. Whenever you feel it's the right time, then go for it.
Profile: courageousMist5432
courageousMist5432 on Jan 28, 2020
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Pick a time that is good for you. Remember this is not about them, coming out is about you. Maybe take them for a coffee and tell them then. If that makes you uncomfortable doing it over text can also work. It is very important to keep yourself safe. If coming out to a specific person could possibly cause you harm, make sure you have people you know and trust with you to step in. You also need to remember that maybe they're not having a great day, so it would be a good idea to take that into consideration,
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