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What's the best way to tell your friends you are homosexual?

Profile: PhoenixB
PhoenixB on Dec 1, 2015
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The best way is how ever you'd like to and when you're ready. Don't rush it and go with the flow. If you're talking about sexualities or crushes or something, you can just mention it normally because it's part of the conversation, or make a mass chat with all your friends and tell them that way. There's no "best" way to come out.
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Profile: GittleLeo
GittleLeo on Dec 21, 2015
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first of all, make sure you are ready. You also want to make sure that when you disclose this to your friends or family that you are direct with them and do it in a setting that is going to allow them some time to take the information in. You want to present this information to them in a non-theatrical way. Avoid an "In your face" approach, you need to make sure they have time to process what you are saying. Remember, there are a lot of things they may not understand, such as why you are disclosing this to them, or the fact that you are gay. I think people like having a dramatic "Coming out" story to tell friends, but sometimes it is not what you tell people that may make things hard to accept but how you tell them, having a close heart to heart conversation with someone is going to help them process what you have disclosed to them easier than creating some dramatic event to tell them. the best way to handle this is speak to friends individually and give them some time to talk to you about this directly and create an environment that will allow for some privacy give them the ability to express their feelings about what you have shared with them.
Profile: YellowCurtains1
YellowCurtains1 on Mar 7, 2016
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Just say it, unless you want to be creative. There's so many cool ways of coming out, just come up with something awesome and go for it
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Apr 19, 2016
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Through a pun or a joke. If you can't think of any use "That person's hair is straighter than I am." Works every time.
Profile: CaylaCares
CaylaCares on Jul 18, 2016
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i have something to tell you all. I really hope that you're understanding. This hasn't been easy for me. I'm very nervous to tell you guys, and worrying about what you'll think. i hope you understand and accept me for who I am. A homosexual. I have learned to accept myself in ways i hope you will too. I trust you guys will not judge or make fun of me for who i am.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Feb 27, 2017
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The best way would be to probably, take them to one side and ask to talk to them in private. Say that you like the same sex and have done for however long. Ask that she supports you in your decision to come out. If you're friend is a true friend they will react with love and support, if they react hatefully then they are not a true friend.
Profile: LovingSunrise55
LovingSunrise55 on Jul 18, 2017
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Show them who you really are and don't fight them. They will see that what they think of you is true. Or you can plainly just tell them. true friends will accept you no matter what you are and fake ones will leave. sad to say. But at least you know who are real and fake,
Profile: heavenWinter99
heavenWinter99 on Jan 23, 2018
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There's no other way than just opening up to them directly because if they're really your friends they would understand you and if they don't, they're not true friends and you don't need them. Just be yourself there is nothing more truer than that.
Profile: Jacobbjackson
Jacobbjackson on Aug 14, 2018
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Just whenever you feel comfortable. To be honest, if you don’t feel comfortable telling them, then wait. I’d just go up to a supportive friend and say hey I have to tell you something and just tell them.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 11, 2019
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The best way to tell your friends you are homosexual is just to tell them. You should be able to just tell them that you are gay. They should accept that. If they are your real friends they will be there for you. If they are not then that is on them. You are important and if they cannot see that then that is one hundred percent on them. You cannot feel as if you should have stayed in the closet just because they don't accept. But you could always do something as leaving it as a hint, or you should tell them on the phone or in person. I feel like that is the most effective way.
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