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What is the best way to come out to your family?

Profile: allnaturalCupcake2608
allnaturalCupcake2608 on Sep 21, 2020
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The best way to come out to your family is to explain that you being gay, bi, or lesbian is that this does not change who you are. You are still the same person and you have not changed. You just prefer to be in a relationship or feel more attracted to a certain gender. In addition, mention that you hope that this does not change how your family views who you are and that you will love them no matter what. I suggest that this should be done when you are at home and everyone is all-around one another.
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Profile: OliviaStrawberry
OliviaStrawberry on Aug 9, 2021
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Just be straightforward and bring it up in conversation. It might be hard for them to understand, even if they're comfortable with it because everyone has certain expectations for their children whether they mean to or not. They may be unfamiliar and have questions about your identity and be prepared to answer some of those questions to the best of your ability. It will be hard because it will feel like your whole world is changing. Remember that their acceptance or non-acceptance does not define you. You are valid and accepted and you will find people who affirm that to you throughout your life. The first conversation will not be the last. Some parents will try to forget that you ever told them and you'll end up having a second conversation the next time you talk about anything LGBTQ+. It may take time or it may be a quick turnaround to normalcy. Every experience is different and ultimately there are no wrong ways to come out to your family. It is your identity and you choose how and when to come out.
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