What if you come out, and everyone turns against you?
Amanda9715
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May 11, 2015
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Then those people, while they may love you, are not meant to be in your life at that moment. Sometimes people will calm down, after the initial shock wears off, but there may be those who you don't deserve you and should be left where they are. m
TheGreyFixer
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Jan 11, 2016
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You will still have your own spirit, and you'll be free to live your life without hiding who you really are. If people are worth keeping around, they'll accept you for who you are. And whatever you do has to be right for you; you can't go around living your life for someone else. There are plenty of LGBTQ+ support groups out there to support you if things really do go bottom up, but I would advise you not to always expect the worst. People can surprise you in ways you would never have thought.
Anonymous
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Feb 26, 2015
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If you come out, and everyone turns against you, there is still support out there and there are many people who will be supportive of you. Even strangers. There are many LGBT groups you can join, whether it be in your specific location, or on the internet. You are never alone.
Anonymous
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Jun 15, 2015
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Well, if they turn against you after you've come out then they're not really your friends or your family. I understand that it'd be difficult to hear that, but it's true. People who love you for you would stick by you if they cared enough to.
Inspirationalspirit
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Jun 29, 2015
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If you come out and people dont want to be around you then thy were never your friend beleive me as a gay man, you will find your true friends the one who love you on the way up and love you on the way down.
Rabbit3ars
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Jul 6, 2015
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Don't let anyone stop you from being you, you will eventually find people who will support you, and those are the people who deserve to be in your life.
Prosh35
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Nov 17, 2015
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I think time heals everything. People will eventually forgive and forget. Let them sink in. Let them know how good your intentions are.
Alethiology
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Feb 8, 2016
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You will be surprised to find there are just as many people supporting you as there is those who don't. Stick to those who do. You can't change.
Anonymous
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Feb 9, 2016
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In this day and age there will always be someone there who supports you. This person may be a complete stranger. This means that you will simply have to either educate those around you, or let them have less of an influence in your life. Don't let other people bring you down, you are apart of a revolution.
wolfen22
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Mar 1, 2016
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No one should be forced to "come out of the closet". Often, LGBTQIA+ people need to keep their sexual and romantic orientations a secret for safety reasons. Sharing such a precious part of yourself with friends and family /can/ lead to horrible situations. If you do not trust those around you to support you and are worried about their reactions, I urge you to not share your sexuality with them until you're in a safe(r) space. (For instance, if you are a teenager, wait until you are able to move out.) If/when you are comfortable with sharing, remember that are allies,support groups, shelters willing to aid you on your journey. The people you know might turn against you and it will hurt, but the world is a large place. Not everyone is so closed-minded. We are here for you.
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