What if there is no label that defines me?
Anonymous
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Feb 9, 2016
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Going with a label is not something for everyone. If you feel like no label defines you, you can smash some labels together, or just go label-less. Both are completely valid.
fancyTurtle46
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Mar 21, 2016
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You don't need a label. If everyone had a label that fitted them perfectly, there would be as many labels as there are people in the world. Just because you can't define yourself by a word that describes a majority doesn't mean anything is wrong.
MariaCuddleBunnyCx
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May 31, 2016
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Labels mean absolutely nothing! You shouldn't care about labels! You're unique and that's fine! You don't need something that means nothing! :)
Anonymous
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May 22, 2017
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Then that's okay too. You can be you, and unapologetically so. Love whomever, and express yourself however you want. You don't need a label to be valid. If someday you find a label that's fine, but people, try so hard that they try to fit something that they're not and begin to lose sight of the happiness that comes with accepting yourself in all of your idiosyncrasies. As has been said, to define is to limit.
Aayla
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Jul 3, 2017
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It's ok: we do not necessarily have to label ourselves! You can just be who you are without having to define yourself with a label. There is a certain freedom and richness in being so peculiar that you can't just put a label on you.
peacefulNight35
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Dec 12, 2017
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That's totally fine. Why do you need a label? You are you, and there is really nothing that can accurately define that. You know who you are, and I think that's more than any label can give you.
Anonymous
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Feb 12, 2018
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Then you're just you. Labels should only help if you find one that makes you comfortable, like a pair of socks. If they don't, then you don't have to wear them.
Anonymous
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Feb 12, 2018
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The one question I would ask myself is.... Do I need a label to define me? I'm I not unique in every single wat? The answer is always within ourself
Sageypie
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Feb 27, 2018
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That's okay. You don't need a label to define you. As long as your happy then it doesn't matter what you are.
katawosuu
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Jun 4, 2018
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That's perfectly okay! Personally, I have struggled with labeling myself in the past but I have found that labels are not meant to be constricting, but rather help you find your way. If you can't find a label that defines you, that is fine.
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