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Sometimes I really think I was meant to be a different gender, but then other times I really like my gender. What's wrong with me?

Profile: ashbradbury42
ashbradbury42 on Feb 22, 2016
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Nothing. You may be genderfluid, which means your gender changes daily or weekly or monthly or whatever. You're fine.
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Profile: Egaeus
Egaeus on Feb 29, 2016
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There is nothing wrong with you. Gender identity can be, and often is, fluid. There is no need to pin yourself down on one specific gender if you don't feel comfortable doing so. For example, if you feel like a woman every odd day in a week and feel like a man the others, that's all right. Things are allowed to just be.
Profile: HonestLee
HonestLee on Mar 22, 2016
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There's nothing wrong with you, and there's no reason that any of us have to pick just one. That type of thinking is referred to as the gender binary where there is only male or female. There is really more of a spectrum - some people feel they are one gender, some feel it changes depending on the day or mood or situation, some feel they are both at the same time, or some sort of combination therein. Others feel they are neither. ALL of these are acceptable - Transgender, bigender, genderfluid, cisgender, agender - there is nothing wrong with any of these or any others you may come across
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on May 3, 2016
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You could possibly be gender-fluid. I have the same "problem." Sometimes I feel masculine, but other times I feel feminine. It's okay to be non-binary. Just do what makes you happy.
Profile: Greatlistener87
Greatlistener87 on May 23, 2016
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Nothing is wrong with u, u might be in the stage of finding out what sort of sexuality you are. That is a though stage and will take time. Take your time and figure it out, let it grow on u as it is suppose to, don't be afraid to learn about urself more.
Profile: OpenEarsOpenHeart
OpenEarsOpenHeart on Jun 14, 2016
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Absolutely nothing is "wrong" with you! Perhaps, delving deeper into and further discussing the idea of feeling this way as being "wrong" would be an excellent starting point!
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jun 14, 2016
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There's nothing wrong with you at all. Genders are just a label to organise people into different categories to better study them. But until the day science is able to understand people better, genders / sexuality will always be misunderstood and people will always be wrongly judged/labelled!
Profile: Probius
Probius on Jun 28, 2016
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There is nothing wrong with you, it sounds like you are gender-fluid, and that's okay. Some people feel like their gender changes over time, and there is nothing wrong with this.
Profile: Idontevencare
Idontevencare on Jul 2, 2016
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You might be genderfluid, meaning that your gender changes, and if you are that's totally fine. It's a real and valid identity, and there is nothing wrong with you.
Profile: Mia1
Mia1 on Jul 5, 2016
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There is absolutely nothing wrong with you. It's absolutely okay to question your gender. It's absolutely okay to be confused. But you're not broken. 7 cups has a great forum of gender. It may be helpful to you! http://www.7cups.com/forum/LGBTQMOGIISupportCommunity_58/ResourcesforLGBTQMOGIICommunity_766/OnGenderIdentityandRespect_296/
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