I've been questioning my sexuality for some time. I do feel I may be attracted to women. I've never been with a women yet but sometimes when I see them I feel so sort of attraction. Can you help me?
Aayla
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Aug 6, 2019
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You don't need to have experience to know what you sexuality is, the attraction you feel is enough to determine it. If you feel attracted to women, you can determine your orientation after you've analyzed your feelings towards all genders and realized who makes you feel attraction. You may choose to have your experiences if and when you prefer, but you can determine your identity at any time by listening to your feelings and sensations, imagining yourself with different people and seeing how that makes you feel.
Beneathestars
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Aug 14, 2018
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Accept any feelings you may have in order to decide how you will act on them and create peace within yourself
leafshn0712
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Jul 28, 2020
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I'm gay myself and also have had quite the struggle with my identity. It's important to take time to figure yourself out, as much as you need. You dont owe anyone a label or an explanation. Maybe finding a person in your circle, that you know won't judge you, and opening up to them would help. Whatever you're feeling, you are valid. It's okay to question yourself, also a label doesn't have to be permanent. There are a lot of people out here who experience similar things, just know you are not alone in your struggle, you will have people in your life who accept you no matter what. :)
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