Im so confused, i like girls and i like to do girly things, but im a boy. What am i?
AzureWinter
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Feb 13, 2018
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Gender can be confusing. I'm cisgender, so I may not be able to help as much as some others, however I do have information from friends who have gone through things similar. The most important thing is, gender is confusing and not always as easy to discover as you might think. You can like to do girly things and still be a boy. Things that are "girly" are just stereotyped anyway, so don't worry too much about that. Mostly, it's just how you feel. Do you feel like a boy? Because then you are. Your gender might fluctuate, you might change or find different identities that suit you throughout your life. Remember, sex is different to gender. I recommend doing some research of your own so you can get an intricate understanding. You'll work it out. Best of luck!
Alexander080
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Feb 18, 2020
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you are who ever you want to be as you don't have to label yourself as anything just do what you want to do that makes you happy. There are lodes of people that are guys that do girly things and girls that do guys stuff. Whatever makes you happy is the main way around it. If you do things that make you comfortable then just keep sticking to that as that is what you want too do and that is what makes you, you. if you don't feel yourself then you aren't going to be happy and you aren't being the best person for yourself
VelvetDreams29
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Sep 7, 2020
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You are a human being. That's what you are. Although you might feel confused right now, you should feel proud that you accepted and acknowledged your orientation and choices. Your sex is something that you are born with, but your gender is something that you choose. What matters most is being happy with the person you are. Understanding your preferences and working towards them will help you develop your own identity and character. This will in turn help you to build your self-confidence. The happier you are with the person you turn out to be, the more you'll be able to succeed in life and help the people around you.
Ldcty999
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Feb 15, 2021
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There is nothing wrong with liking traditionally girly things if you are a boy. You are totally normal. Societal norms are being broke every day of every month of every year and it's people like you who are able to really like something because it makes them happy and not because of what others think that make it entirely possible, enjoy what you want as long as you aren't hurting anyone else. As for liking girls, awesome. It doesn't matter either way :) Your happiness is all that matters and all that you should concentrate on. Just be happy :)
Anonymous
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Jun 21, 2021
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Hey there! Who you are is an extremely difficult question that one has to answer throughout their lives. However if you like girls and like to do girly things then let no one stop you from doing so. Be yourself always and do what you want to do. I understand you are confused but you have the answer to this as well. Just think about who you wanna be and be unapologetically yourself because You are YOU and no one can change that. To quote Taylor Swift, "I'm the only one of me. Baby that's the fun of me!" Hope this helps! Have a great day /night!
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