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I'm most definitely in women and I think I'm a lesbian, however, sex doesn't interest me in the slightest. What's wrong with me?

Profile: CodyR18
CodyR18 on May 2, 2017
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Some individuals are just not interested in sex. This could be due to a few different things. One of them being a low sex drive, which would account for your lack of desire for sex. Another explanation could be that you're asexual, in which you don't experience sexual attraction, this may or may not be the case for you. If it is, you can still class yourself as a lesbian, but rather than be homosexual you may just be homoromantic instead. At the end of the day it's for you to work out, but I can assure you there is nothing wrong with you.
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Profile: BillieElla
BillieElla on Aug 8, 2017
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There is nothing wrong with you for not being interested in sex. That is just a part of who you are and what makes you, you. You are just as normal as someone who is a woman and a lesbian who likes sex. Embrace who you are, and wear it proudly.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Sep 4, 2017
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There is nothing wrong with you. There are other people who feel like you. I think there is a term called "homoromantic asexual", but I don't know if that applies to you. At the end of the day labeling doesn't matter, do what you feel comfortable with, and there is nothing wrong with you.
Profile: peacelovemusic03
peacelovemusic03 on Jan 29, 2018
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The real answer is, there is absolutely nothing wrong with you! You could be asexual if you experience no sexual interest but that does not mean you cant be a romantic lesbian
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TryingmybestElsa on May 7, 2018
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There's absolutely nothing wrong with you. Some people just don't want to have or don't enjoy sex and it's fine. Some people don't even feel sexual attraction towards other people and that's completely valid. I can relate a bit because I identify as homoromantic asexual. Which means I develop feelings for girls but don't feel sexually attracted to them. Maybe it'd help you to look into that? (Feel free to send me a message if you want to talk about that more)
Profile: Allen39
Allen39 on May 4, 2015
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Nothing! You might just be asexual. Asexuality is an extremely normal sexuality- it doesn't exist. It's just not having a sex drive. There are lots of people like this, and there's no need to worry. Asexuals can lead perfectly normal lives, and they're just as fabulous as anyone else.
Profile: Bossuet
Bossuet on May 28, 2015
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That sounds similar to asexual. Asexuality is the lack of sexual attraction (which is different to romantic and aesthetic attraction). I would suggest researching about the asexual spectrum to see if you fit. If you do, remember that asexuality is just as normal as any other orientation, even though we lack visibility in mainstream media.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Aug 3, 2015
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Nothing is wrong with you. You are a homoromantic asexual. Which means you like the same gender but are not sexually attracted to anyone. But you can still be romantically attracted to someone.
Profile: Manifestation
Manifestation on Nov 24, 2015
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There is nothing wrong with you. There are an infinite number of sexual preferences and none of them are wrong. It is completely possible to be attracted on a intellectual level to gender but not on an eros attraction level.
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insightfulApricot11 on Jan 10, 2016
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Nothing is wrong with you. Everyone has a different sexual need, some people find it to be an important thing and other people have little to no desire. Sexuality is an ever changing spectrum and it never has to be constant. Everyone is different, and I'm sure you would find that there are more people like you than you think.
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