I dreamt about kissing someone of the same-sex, what does it mean ?
WinterDog
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Apr 20, 2017
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Maybe you are attracted to the same sex or maybe it was just your sub conscious randomly dreaming about it for no reason or to convey a different meaning (a lot of dreams are cryptic) It's nothing to get too hung up about, hope you have a great day :)
Anonymous
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Nov 8, 2017
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It could mean something or it could also mean nothing. It means whatever you want it to mean. It could lead to you questioning your sexuality, which is completely valid, but also it could just be a one time dream and you may dismiss it as that. Whatever you decide is the right choice.
ppeachess
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Jan 24, 2018
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It could mean that you experience attraction to people who identify as the same gender as you, or it could mean nothing! Dreams do often reflect what we've been thinking about or doing during the day time, though, so you may want to explore your sexuality more. It's important, however, not to pressure yourself into identifying as anything you don't want to. Don't overthink it!
Anonymous
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Jan 31, 2018
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Things we supress eventually foind their way into dreams. Dreams are just symbolic of what resides in the subconcious. It doesn't neccessarily mean you are homosexual - it could also mean you have reservations, fears or avpoidances surrounding homosexuality. All in all the amount of power you give the topic of homosexuality, gives you more of a chance of having same-sex experiences in-dream.
Anonymous
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Feb 3, 2018
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It could mean a variety of things - that you are attracted to the same gender or both genders. Take some time to explore your own identity.
Anonymous
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Feb 7, 2018
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It could mean multiple things. It's possible that you are wondering about being attracted to people of the same sex, and that's something you'll figure out over time. It's also possible that it was just a crazy dream because who doesn't have those?
Anonymous
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Feb 8, 2018
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In dreams kisses often mean having a conversation with someone, so it's not actually about kissing someone. Dreams are very symbolic at times.
IAmSherlocked123
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Feb 14, 2018
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It doesn't have to mean anything. Everyone has dreams they can't explain every once in a while. You can't control the things you dream. It could mean that you're LGBT, but it doesn't necessarily have to be that way.
JayaJr626
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Feb 20, 2018
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This is really common. If you identify as a straight person, this kind of dream doesn't necessarily mean you are lgbtq+ or have lgbtq+ desires in your real, awake, life. The dream world allows you explore the full scope of your sexuality, but doesn't necessarily reflect on your actions irl. I wish you the best of luck
LotusFriend
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Feb 24, 2018
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Dreams are reflections of what we see when we're awake. If you saw two people kissing (or kissed someone yourself), your brain stored the memory. If you saw someone of the same sex, your brain stored that memory too. Then, when you were asleep, your brain processed the memories by mashing them all together in a dream. It doesn't necessarily mean anything, but if you feel you'd want to do that in real life, then it might mean you have a bigger dating pool than you originally thought.
Anonymous
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Mar 1, 2018
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Your dreams don't really mean anything, It could just be a compressed thought you have been having and you keep form thanking about but while your sleeping that thought comes up and it can explain why
Aayla
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Aug 26, 2019
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Maybe nothing, or maybe that was a signal of something deeper. It all depends on how that makes you feel, and how do same-sex fantasies feel when you're awake. Does that make you feel good? Is it something you woukd like? Is it the same for the opposite gender? Only by asking yourself what these fantasies feel like when you're awake you'll be able to determine who you are.
Lior
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Feb 25, 2015
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Dreaming is a dream. It's something our mind see in an uncontrollable sort of fantasy.
Even people who experienced same-sex kissing sometime still consider themselves hetero.
Like every other thought or dream, it's a fantasy, it doesn't have to mean anything or say about anything that we actually want to do.
People dream about murder, monsters, and so many other weird things, so same-sex kiss in a dream means only what you think it means, but it's still an uncontrollable thought of the mind.
YouAreBeutiful
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Aug 23, 2015
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It can mean many different things. It could mean that you were just dreaming and your mind randomly came up with it, you may like this person, or you may actually like the same-sex. Don't jump to conclusions, this could just be random.
Anonymous
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Aug 23, 2015
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It doesn't mean anything until you do it. If you like it then you might be into the same sex but if you hate it you might still be straight. You might also be bisexual. Don't worry its not a bad thing .
Anonymous
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Sep 2, 2015
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It doesn't mean anything. many people ussually do have such dreams. don't overthink. its not a big deal.
Anonymous
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Sep 3, 2015
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It's quite common for this to happen to people. Dreams often lead to odd things which may not mean anything, but it could also mean that you have an attraction to someone of the same sex. Give yourself time to figure it out (:
FridaBy
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Sep 5, 2015
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It can mean a lot of things i think, maybe you're bi, maybe you're gay, or maybe you're just curious. Who knows, give it a though!
eleanor0610
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Sep 5, 2015
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All it means is that you dreamed about kissing someone of the same-sex. It's okay. Perhaps, in your waking life, you're questioning your sexuality - this is also okay. You don't have to put a label on your sexual preferences, unless you want to. You're in control.
RebeccaH
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Sep 9, 2015
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It means you had a dream! We all dream about lots of things, and I don't believe they have any real significance. Our brains just file away things from the day, and this presents to us as dreams. I dream about flying around and being a superhero, but that doesnt mean I actually want to be one. Similarly, I sometimes dream that I am being chased by monsters and when they catch me they turn me into one of them and then we all have tea together. In a bathtub. On a cloud. Dreams are weird, and fun, and don't really mean anything! :)
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