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I dreamt about kissing someone of the same-sex, what does it mean ?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 27, 2015
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Well it might not mean anything but it might hint at the fact that you're curious about kissing someone of the same-sex or you really want to. Sexuality is weird and confusing and I know that sometimes we tend to deny ourselves of who we are when we want to try and "be normal" but there is no true "normal". So maybe you should really think about what it means to you - have you thought about it while you're awake? have you ever wanted to do it outside your dreams? No matter what you realize about yourself, who you are is good enough and you will always be loved by someone no matter your sexuality. It's up to you to determine what it means to you but just know you have a whole family of support on here at 7cups!
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Profile: freefromworries
freefromworries on Oct 16, 2016
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It could mean something, but it doesn't have to! A lot of people have dreams that don't have a reason behind them. A simple dream does not mean much of anything.
Profile: shadowhawk
shadowhawk on Jan 24, 2018
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it doesn't mean anything, just do what feels good, life is simple dont over think :) and if that feels good then go ahead, just be sure to be safe.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Aug 21, 2015
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Sometimes dreams are weird and don't mean anything. But it's not excluded that you may like that person
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Aug 26, 2015
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It can mean nothing and everything at the same time but it's nothing to worry about! At some point in your life you might feel attracted to someone of the same-sex as you or even just start wondering how it would be to have something with that person (physically) but that doesn't mean you are gay/bi, sometimes is just a normal case of curiosity.
Profile: DialWithin
DialWithin on Sep 2, 2015
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Represents self acceptance. :) You are acknowledging your feminine/masculine side, depending on gender
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Oct 25, 2015
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When I started having dreams like this I started reading books about same sex relationships to see how I would react to them this helped me learn that I was bisexual and transgendered. Reading really helped me develop who I am and answer questions about who I am! Luna by Julie Ann Peters, Great and Terrible Beauty just to name two.
Profile: gracefulSunshine62
gracefulSunshine62 on Nov 27, 2015
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It could be just a dream. A dream doesn't determine if you are gay or not. But it could mean it is on your mind. When I was questioning I thought about the significance to my dreams, thoughts, preferences. But really the only one who can determine how you identify or the significance of anything is you. If you choose a label that you feel you identify with that is 100% cool! If you don't want a label or you still feel like you identify as straight that is cool too and 100% valid!
Profile: Emkabuu19
Emkabuu19 on Nov 28, 2015
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For me it was nothing special because I already knew that I like girls, but for others it can mean nothing, because it is just a dream. What really matters is will you act on it?
Profile: floatingonclouds
floatingonclouds on Nov 29, 2015
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Nothing in general. There could be a possibility of you having sexual feelings, but it doesn't mean anything in general.
Profile: imalovesyou
imalovesyou on Oct 7, 2016
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don't look deep into it. it could mean you're homosexual, pansexual, bisexual or even asexual, but it doesn't matter because dreams are not reality and at the end of the day, even in dreams, love is love
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Oct 25, 2016
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It can be just a dream. It does not have to mean something. But, when the day comes and you have some feelings for someone of the same-sex, then it means that you probably are gay or bisexual.
Profile: peachicus
peachicus on Oct 30, 2016
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I found this, maybe it will help. "If you are not homosexual in your waking life, but dream of having sex with someone of the same sex, it’s about your self-esteem. Depending on how the dream plays out, this same sex dream is about loving parts of yourself that you’ve been less than accepting of. Homosexual sex with a friend may be a commentary about some rift between you, insecurities about the friendship, or some quality or talent they have that you emulate. Don’t worry, it doesn’t mean you secretly want to sleep with your best friend."
Profile: Butterfly121
Butterfly121 on Nov 3, 2016
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It could mean you arent straight, or it could mean nothing at all! Plenty of straight people have had romantic feelings towards the same sex and still been straight.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 6, 2016
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It might mean that you're just curious about the same-sex. It doesn't mean you're sexually interested. Just that you're curious about what it'd be like.
Profile: mcla
mcla on Nov 9, 2016
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It doesn't necessarily mean that you are attracted to the same sex if that is what you're thinking. Sometimes its curiosity kicking in
Profile: destielwins
destielwins on Nov 10, 2016
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Nothing really. A lot of people dream about just that while still being 100% straight. But even if it were to mean something else, that would be okay! But as long as you're just honest to yourself you will be fine.
Profile: JamesLGBT
JamesLGBT on Nov 16, 2016
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Well, i remember my first time having a dream about a member of the same-sex. It was shocking, but interesting at the same time. It helped me define who I am today!
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 24, 2016
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I personally don't think it means anything. It doesn't mean you are bisexual, but you still could be regardless. I wouldn't worry about it too much. Maybe just think about how you would feel about that dream actually happening.
Profile: ApplePudding
ApplePudding on Dec 10, 2016
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If you dream of kissing a partner of the same sex, then this is not likely to be a homosexual desire, but rather it is more about the fact that you want to feel comfort in your daily existence. It is clear that there is an area of your life which needs change, in order for you to become who you should be in life. Maybe some area of your life is missing, and the dream of kissing is an indication that you need to find comfort and dignity going forward.
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