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I don't really feel like a girl or a guy. Is it possible to be neither?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 27, 2017
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Yes! You can be nonbinary, agender, or any of those type identities and you will still be completely and utterly valid!
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Profile: cylee
cylee on Feb 6, 2018
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It is definitely possible! Nonbinary, agender, and or gender nonconformist people exist and are 100% valid! Gender is a spectrum. Not a definite this or that. And you can fall anywhere from female to male or neither at all. It’s how you personally feel and what you identify with.
Profile: RiotRook1991
RiotRook1991 on Nov 14, 2017
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In a biological sense, no. You're either male, female, or intersex, but under certain conditions, it's possible you may feel differently. Do the best you can to seek out a psychologist and tell them how you feel about your gender identity as soon as you can. It's important to speak to someone who can help you move towards what may be effecting you.
Profile: SwordAndThePen
SwordAndThePen on Feb 7, 2018
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Absolutely. Gender identities are a spectrum. You could feel like a mixture of the binaries, a combination of neither, or something entirely its own. Only you can define what your identity means to you. Take some time to experiment with different labels and definitions until you find one that fits.
Profile: AzulFresa77
AzulFresa77 on Apr 3, 2018
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Me too! Yes I think it's possible to neither, I havnt really came out to anyone about it because I'm afraid of being judged, but if I can be gay than I can be neither gender too.
Profile: finnyfae
finnyfae on Apr 13, 2018
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I know plenty of people have said this here, but it’s possible. (I’m nonbinary and don’t identify as either male or female!) There’s lots of really great communities out there, and I while I know trying to figure out gender stuff is tricky and sometimes stressful, keep in mind that gender is a personal experience and you’re 100% valid to be who you are.
Profile: CaliforniaGurl56
CaliforniaGurl56 on May 2, 2018
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Yes! You're most likely agender. Not having a gender. And its totally ok! Just be yourself and live life!
Profile: Dantonio04
Dantonio04 on Jan 25, 2022
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It is absolutely possible to be neither, gender is a society thing. You have the right to feel whoever you feel like. There are plenty of people who identify with being neither a guy nor a girl. It is a lot more common than most people think. You could be questioning if you fit in, and that also isn't an issue. You could identify with non-binary, non-binary is someone who identifies as neither male nor female. There are many people who identify as this, and there is also a whole community that supports them.
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