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I am very confused about my sexuality. How can I determine what my sexuality really is?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Mar 13, 2016
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Sexuality is a very difficult thing to determine. When I tried to determine mine it took a very long time for me to figure out what I really was. With time will come knowing who you are, and knowing your sexuality. There is no explicit way to determine this is what I am without thinking long and hard about it, and past experiences first
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Profile: EthanJames19
EthanJames19 on Mar 14, 2016
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Just find out what really arouses you and accept that. Simple !!!
Profile: Razmatazq
Razmatazq on Mar 16, 2016
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It's natural to feel confused about what you're attracted to or what you're interested in. The best part about being confused is, you're in no rush. You don't need to prove to anyone or be any one thing. Just explore your feelings by talking to friends you trust, or reflecting on what you value in people. A lot of people go through these feelings, but that's not always bad.
Profile: SamanthaFaith
SamanthaFaith on Mar 16, 2016
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Explore the waters. If you are attracted to one gender more than the other, embrace it. Your sexuality is yours. It's not something that someone can tell you!
Profile: Dillion
Dillion on Mar 17, 2016
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Sometimes we have questions about our sexuality. That is normal. Find what makes you happy, and be what you want to be, not what others want.
Profile: AveryinUnderland
AveryinUnderland on Mar 18, 2016
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That's a very personal question, do some soul searching, maybe even experiment. It'll come with time and personal growth.
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Anonymous on Mar 18, 2016
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Keep thinking about it until there is not one doubt in your mind. If you rush into it, you could interpret the wrong things from your feelings.
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Anonymous on Mar 18, 2016
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Everyone's journey is unique and different. There's no set rules on how to determine your sexuality, it's all up to you and your path to self discovery.
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Anonymous on Mar 19, 2016
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Introspection is very important - maybe you can write down exactly what you're attracted to in people, both physically and emotionally. Another great step to take is to talk to people within the LGBTQ+ community. Start asking people about their own experiences when discovering their orientation. This is a great way to connect to others that might feel the same way you do.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Mar 19, 2016
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I have been going through this too, in the last summer. Watching coming out videos and listening to people talking about their feelings and realization when they found out helped me a lot. But I mean you dont have to determine and label yourself. Instead of wanting that you could just say that it doesn't matter who you have a crush on. If it happens then it happens and thats okay :)
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