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I am very confused about my sexuality. How can I determine what my sexuality really is?

Profile: purpleidea777
purpleidea777 on Apr 8, 2016
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Do some research and talk with some people that have taken the path of learning their sexuality. The best thing you can do to help yourself is to learn the possibilities. If you don't know what you're looking for, it's so much harder to find.
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Anonymous on Apr 9, 2016
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Just listen to your heart! Find some support groups and do some research about all of the different sexualities and find which one is more like how you feel!
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Anonymous on Apr 13, 2016
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Sexuality is a confusing thing. Experience is really the best way to find out who you're attracted to. Sometimes sexuality may not be what you think it was. Be patient with yourself and remember that you don't have to have a definite label for who you are. It takes time and patience, but when you find out, it's very satisfying. I wish you luck :)
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Anonymous on Apr 14, 2016
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well you'll have to ask yourself questions and then stuff like that and see if your legit with your thought
Profile: EmilijaS
EmilijaS on Apr 17, 2016
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Sexuality can be very hard to get the grip of sometimes because you might be just curious or not admitting of what is going on. Most of all, it might be the society you live in, is it supporting or judging, if it's judging, subconsciously you might be afraid to even admit it to yourself. The best way to determinate is first to relax and second to get yourself in situations where you can see your feelings and instincts around the both genders. Good luck !!
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Anonymous on Apr 17, 2016
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Mainly by making experiences, without having to feel unconfortable of course. Also take some time everyday to think about it.
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proudNarwhal40 on Apr 21, 2016
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Only you will know when the time is right. In time you will absolutely know weather or not your gay, bisexual, straight.
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Stingrae on Apr 22, 2016
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Talk to someone you trust or talk to someone on here and ask them. If it were me, I would experiment with who I talk to or who I derive my feelings to. But don't do it too much that you lose focus on what's important. I'm also going through this too if you would like to talk about it.
Profile: Max1997
Max1997 on Apr 24, 2016
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It'll take time, you can experiment. After time, you will come to terms, and gain a better understanding of it.
Profile: softPuppy75
softPuppy75 on Apr 24, 2016
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Figuring out your sexuality is often a process that doesn't just happen overnight. Personally, my journey has been lifelong and ever-changing. Our society makes us feel like we have to fit into a label, but there are not only people that fit labels like "gay" and "straight" perfectly, but also people who fall within a gray area in between. What is most important is following your heart and living your truth. While you may feel like you need to label yourself to define your identity, staying true to how you feel on the inside is what is most important, and the label may (or may not) come later.
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