How do you know if your bisexual?
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Updated: Aug 2, 2020
Talulah22
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Apr 19, 2015
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Yes, you are. If you feel like you are bisexual, you are. Simple as that. A lot of people have a (slight) preference, there's nothing wrong with that.
SaelbenNoa
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Jun 5, 2015
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I recommend reading a bit about the Kinsey scale, there are many different types of bisexual people... Some are more homo, others more heterosexual.
oopsolie12
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Sep 14, 2015
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you are bisexual even if you have a preference it means that you can be attracted to three or more genders.
floralhats
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Dec 28, 2015
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Of course you're bisexual even if you have a preference. Bisexuality means that you are attracted to females and males. It does not have to be 50/50. It's perfectly okay to have a preference!
Anonymous
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Feb 8, 2016
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Your bisexual if you love both girls and women. So if u like both, even if u may have slight preference, you're bisexual, but if its a huge preference you may not be bisexual, your sexuality would be where your preference is.
politeTiger9271
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Mar 14, 2016
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Yes. Every person have preferences in their sexualities
Momo127
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Jun 14, 2016
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Of course. Bisexuality is not defined by equally liking both genders. If you feel that you are bisexual because you have had feelings for both genders but have a preference, you are totally valid. Seriously.
Sunburst223
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Jun 18, 2016
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Of course. All bisexuality really means, at least to me, is that you some kind of attraction to both sexes. It doesn't have to be an equal attraction.
Anonymous
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Jun 19, 2016
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It doesn't matter if you have a preference, if you are attracted to both sexes, you are bisexual.
SimplyBeing
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Jun 29, 2016
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Questions about sexuality are always hard. I have had my own experience of bisexuality but my situation and yours may be very different. I do know that what kind of sex we prefer (gay, bi, str8, ect.), who we want to be in a romantic relationship with and what our internal fantasy life is can be very different things. So whether you are bisexual depends on where you fall on all three of those categories. So a person can be attracted only to males, want to be in a romantic relationship with only women and have fantasies of both sexes. And all of those things can put them in different categories. It's okay to be who you are right here and right now. It's okay to say, "right now I am attracted to _______" or "I identify as _________ right now." Take some time to examine what you feel about each possible partner. Get some support like reaching out here or with a professional counselor. Be gentle with yourself and give yourself time. I wish you peace. ~J
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