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Profile: listenercat5678
listenercat5678 on Aug 25, 2016
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Only you can know if you are bisexual. But most people know when they begin to have feelings for both sexes.
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Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Sep 4, 2016
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if you start liking some things related to LGBT and felt confused but happy on that stage, you know you are a happy bi :)
Profile: snowyylola
snowyylola on Sep 9, 2016
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I came out of the closet in January this year as a lesbian, before that I thought I was bisexual. The reason I thought I was bisexual was because I had been with guys before, and I honestly can't remember when my interest in girls started. I think I just finally allowed myself to be open to it all off a sudden, it is quite hard to explain. However, now that I have a lot of time to think, spoken to some people and just focus on myself I realised that even though I was with guys before, even had a crush on a guy in 9th grade that I just knew. It took a while to "just know" that I was gay but if you feel attracted to both genders then that is how you feel. It is also okay to say you are bisexual and if this changes in the future then it will. I have a friend that had never questioned her sexuality (as far as I know) until she saw this girl and was just blown away by how beautiful she was and developed a crush on her, and that is how she knew. I guess if you are questioning your sexuality it is good to experiment? It is easier said than done but just seeing how you feel about the idea of dating/being attracted to the other sex can help a lot when it comes to self-discovery. Talking to someone about these feelings can also be helpful just to speculate and understand better. I would advise speaking to someone that has experienced questioning their sexuality, regardless of their sexual orientation.
Profile: colorfulPuppy52
colorfulPuppy52 on May 26, 2017
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Do you imagine yourself with a male or a female in the future? Are you comfortable with the thought of being in a relationship with a female or a male? Or both? Are you straight and trying to identify your sexuality? Or are you gay/lesbian? If you're the latter, it differs than the formal. Did something happen and you realised you might be bisexual? Or are you trying to know about your sexuality?
Profile: Aayla
Aayla on Jul 1, 2017
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It all depends on who you are attracted to. If you're not sure, focus on your reactions, on both emotional and physical perspective, when you look at someone you find really beautiful. If you feel like you desire both men and women - not just as "both are beautiful" but as "I feel desire for both men and women" - then you are bisexual. Remember you don't have to label yourself immediately, take you time, explore your desires and fantasies without any prejudice. And don't worry, there's no nothing wrong in any secual orientation, whatever it is
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jul 15, 2017
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I believe it is when we have feelings, both biologically and mentally, for both sexes. It doesn't mean that you have to find every girl or every guy attractive or act on these feelings for your feelings to be real.
Profile: niamh333
niamh333 on Aug 13, 2017
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Well a good sign that you might be bisexual is if you are feeling sexual attraction towards males and females. Please note that this is different from romantic attraction. Labels can be helpful to aid us in figuring our feelings out but they are not the most important thing so don't worry if you're not sure. Here is a comprehensive list of attractions and orientations if you're interested about learning more :) https://goo.gl/xX6JXD
Profile: Turbokiddo
Turbokiddo on Aug 18, 2017
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Sexuality can be a pretty complex topic and some people just discover themselves as times goes by, it's okay to be confused and it's okay to question yourself, as a bisexual person myself i can say that it was rather confusing for me too when i first started questioning myself, sexuality and gender identity is a spectrum and normally based in my personal experience i'd say that a bisexual person feels romantically and sexually attracted to both genders, if you're bisexual you're most likely open to engage in a relationship regardless of gender, but there's also bisexual people with a preference for males or females, well, in the end of the day it all comes down to how you feel and what makes you happy, there's no rush, you don't need a label to be who you are and love who you love, so in my opinion the only way for you to find out if you're bisexual or not is to let yourself live and experience, explore and discover more about others and yourself, i'm sure that you'll eventually get the answer you're looking for.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Sep 2, 2017
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Bisexual, by definition, is an attraction to two genders. This is usually make and female. If you find yourself sexually attracted to both then you could be bisexual. If you find yourself emotionally attracted to both but only sexually to one you may be biromantic. Research can help you better identify your feelings.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Sep 20, 2017
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Bisexual, like most queer terms is ultimately about what labels you feel empowered by. Look up definitions, listen to how bi people explain their sexuality, and determine if you feel the term is accurate and/or helpful for you. You can always change your mind about the terms you use to define your sexuality if you later figure out the one you're using doesn't quite fit as you'd like.
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