How do I tell my boyfriend that I'm transgender?

It is always best to be in a comfortable, open environment. You may also want to explain to him what being transgender is all about. Once you feel he understands, tell him softly that you are thinking that you might be one yourself. It is always better to ensure he feels that he is part of your transition. Once you have told him, give him some space, as this is big news and he will need to prosess. It is better to consider the possibility that he will not accept you before hand, even though it is unlikely, it can happen. If it does then it is important to remember that if he loves you for who you are, then this is part of that and it's up to him to accept you. There is nothing wrong with you, you are an amazing person. Never forget that.

My first advice would be to be completely out to yourself first. Knowing who you are and being confident in your identity can be extremely helpful when coming out to others. I would recommend doing it in a quiet, private space that you can talk comfortably in. He might be confused or sad or any number of other feelings and you have got to be prepared for that possibility. His feelings don't make your feelings and self-identity any less valid though and no matter how he reacts it's important to know that. I wish you the best of luck, Ency.

Hi! The truth isn't always easy,but it is what it is. If he doesn't accept you for who you are,that's on him. You are amazing and will find someone amazing him or someone else. He also deserves to know the truth and he will either accept it or not,but whether it is good news or bad news,you can trust that the 7 cups of teas family will always be here for you 24 7 and we are ready to hear everything you offer to tell us. Good luck and make sure to catch us up on the news after.Bye!

Coming out as transgender to your boyfriend can range from scary and difficult to exciting and liberating. It’s different for everyone. There’s no one right way to come out. When you decide that you’re ready to come out, give yourself time to think through how you’ll do it and what you’ll say. After you decide what you’ll say to him, and how you’ll say it, be prepared to wait as he digests and accepts the new information. Give him the time he needs to think about and try to understand what you’re going through. Don’t assume that everyone will react negatively. Some people may surprise you with their openness and acceptance. That is all that you have to keep in mind! I hope this gives you the confidence to come out to him. Wishing you the very best!

I have been through this exact situation. What I did was I asked them what they thought of transgender people and the LGBT community. If I got the positive answer then I'd ask them what would happen if someone they loved was transgender, if they came out with a positive answer like "I'd love them the same no matter what." Then at the end of it I'd ask them if they loved me no matter what. If it was a yes then I'd tell them. If the first two questions were negative then I wouldn't ask or talk anymore on the subject but that also meant I'd have to review my options as to my future with them. Remember though and let them always know that you're still the same individual that they know and love you have just shown another aspect of yourself.

Be honest. In relationships, honesty is one of the most important things you can have. It builds trust, and hiding things from the S/O can cause stress, unnecessary worry, bitterness/resentfulness towards oneself for not being able to say what they want or need to. Have a sit down with your S/O and be honest with what you need to tell them. Know their views on the topic and be receptive towards their decision and reaction. If you are too nervous, or in some way unable to say what you need to, write down what you need them to know and let them read it. It could help to have gentle music playing on a low volume so there isn't any silence, as well. Be understanding and patient with him, and know that he will likely need some time to process the information.

First off, you need to respect the way this would make him feel. If he isn't attracted to the opposite gender that you are transitioning into, then it's likely that the relationship won't work out. And that's okay. Just sit down with him and explain what Gender Dysphoria is and how it is effecting you, and what your transition would mean. If he respects you, whether or not you stay together, then that's great. If he doesn't, then he isn't someone to stress over. I recommend explaining the biological cause of your mental condition and how transitioning is your treatment for this condition.

I think honesty is probably the most important foundation of a relationship. The best way would be to be as transparent as possible but at the same time, one would need to be calm and patient and give the person space to fully understand this. It's important to be aware that people may not initially react well but if given space and time, they may be able to understand and get around it better. I also think that this something that should be discussed quite early on in the relationship, just so both individuals can go into the relationship with full disclosure.

you meet up with him in a quiet place like a costa or starbucks and maybe order a drink and tell him that you are transgender. break the news slowly and be calm as it can often be difficult for other people to understand as well as difficult for you to have to explain it. make sure he understands what this means for the relationship and the two of you to avoid awkward conversations later on. if it makes you feel more comfortable tell a friend first and bring them with you but try to not bring too many people

This is a very personal, and individualized conversation. First off, congrats on your journey as a person! While coming out to anyone can be scary, it ca also be invigorating. This is especially true of your significant other. It is important to make sure that you are in a safe environment first. Second be 100% genuine about your identity, (and if its hard to do that in person maybe write a letter?). And Three be sure to be prepared for any and all responses. Bottom line if the truly are good for you they will respect you regardless of anything (this does not mean you will continue dating, but still) you are awesome!! love yourself.. ALWAYS!