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How do I know if I'm gay, lesbian, or bisexual?

Profile: WangSejabin
WangSejabin on Jun 19, 2015
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If you feel repulsion for or even just disinterest in the opposite sex, you might be gay/lesbian. If kissing both boys and girls is equally exciting, you might be bisexual. It is something you figure out for yourself. No need to rush
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Profile: VickieLynn
VickieLynn on Jun 20, 2015
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I personally am straight. But I have gone through the dilemma of trying to find out what sexuality I was. I feel that whatever you are drawn too is what is right for you. Nothing wrong with being different :)
Profile: RiverStone
RiverStone on Jun 20, 2015
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More times than not, if you look at someone of the same sex and something inside of you finds that person attractive, you may be something other than straight. If you find yourself focusing on a celebrity that is the same sex as you, that could definitely be an indicator. When I was younger, I thought my fascination with certain celebrities was just me being a fan of their music or acting. No. Turns out they were crushes. Look at some pictures of those people, do you find yourself attracted to them?
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jun 20, 2015
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You just knoww it, but maybe you dont want to accept the fact that you are not as your parents want you to be, as the world want you to be. But, you are who you are, and thats the best thing you can do for yourself, be you.
Profile: brirose23
brirose23 on Jun 20, 2015
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You will know because you will have an attraction, whether is be sexual or romantic, to that gender.
Profile: gradientaesthetic
gradientaesthetic on Jun 24, 2015
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You feel attracted to members of your same sex, or, in the case of bisexual, by your same sex and the opposite gender, or even more, as there aren't two genders only. You have to understand what's sexual attraction in the first place, and learn to differ it from romantic attraction.
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you just know. dont worry about the labels too much, focus on how you feel and what you look for in a partner.
Profile: XanrikTheHighblood
XanrikTheHighblood on Jun 24, 2015
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Are you attracted to any other sex out of the opposite of yours? If yes then you are at least Bisexual
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jun 25, 2015
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Do you like guys, girls, or both. Its often hard to decide but overall it doesn't matter. You like whoever you like and thats okay!
Profile: caringParadise45
caringParadise45 on Jun 25, 2015
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It has to come from your gut basically. The expert on you is you and is completly normal to feel attraction whether is the normative one or not. Human sexuality is a full gray scale there is not a black and white. Talk to others that you really trust and start navigating the path of finding yourself and knowing where you feel comfortable
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