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How do I know if I'm gay, lesbian, or bisexual?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jan 27, 2016
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This has been a question brought up in society many many times, but somehow, it is still not considered as 'normal' to ask this. I personally believe that there is no clear cut definition to a person's sexual orientation. I think that it is rather a question of 'who are they?' rather than 'what are they?' which determines who you choose as your partner. My point is that everyone is probably bisexual because if they meet the right person, no matter if they're the same or opposite gender, they could always become a couple.
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Profile: ella3421
ella3421 on Jan 28, 2016
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You'll know when you know, and you shouldn't rush it. Within time you'll know how you feel, but for now just do what feels right to you. If you're getting feelings for girls, that's okay, if you have feelings for guys, that's okay, if you aren't getting feelings at all, that's perfectly fine. There is always someone out there who feels the same as you and/or is willing to help you through your confusion.
Profile: rykairo
rykairo on Jan 29, 2016
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Well, just think about who you're attracted to. Do you picture yourself with the same or opposite sex? Do you picture yourself with both? Really take time to reflect and if you feel that you can identify with a label, that's great! If you don't that's perfectly fine too.
Profile: blanket7
blanket7 on Jan 31, 2016
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If you are gay you are a male who is attracted to males. If you are a lesbian you are a female who is attracted to females. If you are bisexual you are someone attracted to males and females. Simple :)
Profile: penguinprotector6958
penguinprotector6958 on Feb 6, 2016
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To know what sexuality you are just think about if you like the same sex of you or just experiment with the same gender ect.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Feb 10, 2016
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Reading up on the definitions for sexuailtes is a good step for identification. As well, thinking about your previous experiences with romantic and sexual attraction also is helpful.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Feb 16, 2016
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Go with what you think. If you are attracted sexually to the same gender then you are either gay or lesbian depending on your gender and if you are sexually attracted to both then you are bisexual.
Profile: LonelyAngels
LonelyAngels on Mar 1, 2016
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AS far as i know, as long as you are sexually and heartfully attracted to male and female, you can say that your bisexual, if your a man and attracted only to man, then your gay(being gay doesn not mean you are being feminine) and if you are a female and only attracted to female then your a lesbian(being a lesbian doesn't mean you must act like a boy, you can be girly and such)
Profile: warmheartedGlobe8527
warmheartedGlobe8527 on Mar 19, 2016
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Well if you feel attracted to some one that's the same gender than you know you gay/lesbian but if you feel attracted to a man or woman that would make you bisexual.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Mar 29, 2016
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you can simply answer it by your own self.. Knowing what your emotional feelings want
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