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How do I know if I'm gay, lesbian, or bisexual?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jul 30, 2015
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It's not exactly something that you just "know". You shouldn't worry about putting a label on it. Instead, just focus on who and what makes you happy. I know there will be the fear of being rejected, but you shouldn't change yourself to make someone else happy. Your happiness is more important than you know.
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Profile: MonkeyMaster
MonkeyMaster on Jul 31, 2015
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Everybody has a different answer for that question. Some people just know it since they're a child, some other discover it when they're old. And it's okay to not know yet. It's also okay to feel like you're something and later to feel like something else. Someday, the answer will come up.
Profile: destran
destran on Jul 31, 2015
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For me, it was easy to tell. I wanted to kiss and be close to a girl the way I always saw girls being close to guys. It took years for me to be comfortable with those feelings, because I knew they weren't common- but after being honest and open about my sexual orientation, I found I wasn't nearly as alone as I thought.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Aug 1, 2015
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I think that it is when you decide what your preference is. When that happens, you'll know because that choice is what will make you happy.
Profile: trisjlistens
trisjlistens on Aug 1, 2015
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If you feel like you are being attracted to people of your own gender emotionally and sexually. Gay, boy attracted to boy. Lesbian, girl attracted to girl. Bi, attracted to 2 genders.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Aug 2, 2015
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either you know, or you try out to know. in this case, either experience helps you know or you just know who you would rather be with.
Profile: SupportiveBipolar23
SupportiveBipolar23 on Aug 2, 2015
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for being ademisexual pan myself. its all in your heart this has nothing to do with your head. if you find your self talking to you self about it then your head is what is confused but. if your heart starts to skip when you see that one person. it doesnt matter the sex. happiness is why were here today
Profile: Dillion
Dillion on Aug 5, 2015
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We all have different feelings of sexuality. Knowing if you are Gay, lesbian, or bisexual is a little confusing at times, but here is how most figure it out, take three situations, one where you are with the same sex, one with the same sex and the other sex, and one with the other sex, whichever you feel most comfortable in and happy, will determine whether you are gay, lesbian, or bisexual.
Profile: alexquinn10
alexquinn10 on Aug 5, 2015
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A lot of the time it's just a matter of thinking "hey, I find people of the same sex very attractive and I kind of want to kiss them." Most people feel confused by these thoughts and sometimes deny them. Some people feel uncomfortable by it and react badly in ways they regret. It takes sometime to come to terms with who you are when it comes to sexuality, but in the end, we all figure it out.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Aug 5, 2015
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It mostly just who you like but sexuality is fluid and someone could be fully straight and still end up someday liking someone of the same sex or the other way around. I'd say just go with the flow and like whoever you like.
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