How do I know if I'm gay, lesbian, or bisexual?
Anonymous
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Jul 5, 2015
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At first you should know it yourself inside you. If you are really not sure I advise to visit some online dating sites for gays and lesbians. You can find friends who can help you find it out but the best way to figure it out is to find out if you can feel love to the same sex or if you are sexually attracted to him or her. Main thing is to dont be afraid if you feel some of these. Being different is never a bad thing.
romeoooo
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Jul 5, 2015
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It takes time, you really just have to feel it out. You don't need to put a label on it immediately!! If you see a girl and want to date her then dangit, date her. Be yourself.
angelcaughtinthecrossfire
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Jul 5, 2015
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Well the answer is never simple. I am bisexual and for me that means that I am attracted to both guys and girls and the way they make me feel tells me whether or not I am bi. You know when you know, I think. If you are both physically, mentally and emotionally attracted to that person who happens to be the same gender.
peachysunny
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Jul 5, 2015
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gay, attracted to ppl of the same sex, lesbain the same. lesbain -female gay- male, bisexual both female and male
originalLion57
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Jul 5, 2015
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You'll know you're bisexual when you find both genders romantically and sexually attractive. The term 'gay' can be used for both women and men, but if you're a woman and you only find women attractive, you'll know you're a lesbian. If you're a man and you only find men attractive, you'll know you're gay. Often people know this within themselves because sexuality isn't something you choose or can change. So often people know, deep down, what they are, but it can be a scary thing for them if they have to come out into a place or society where people are ignorant and judgemental.
Emily619
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Jul 5, 2015
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You know if you're gay, lesbian, or bisexual if you have sexual/romantic feelings for the same sex. If you are gay, you are typically a guy with feelings for a guy. If you are lesbian, that is the same case, except with females. Some lesbians prefer to be called "gay" instead of "lesbian." If you are bisexual, you have feelings for both genders.
JoyfulHeart822
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Jul 8, 2015
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Well, you will figure it out eventually, based on who you are attracted to. The answer may not come immediately and you may mislabel yourself in the beginning, but eventually you will learn your sexual orientation, and to understand yourself better.
Brittneym101
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Jul 8, 2015
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Only you can find out if you're gay,lesbian, or bisexual. Nobody else. It's up to you to determine your fate.
kindheartedSun3
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Jul 8, 2015
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How do I know if I'm Bi - When my heart starts to beat like it what to jump out from my throat every time I glance at someone who's attractive, my palm started to sweat, butterflies when they are near, forgot I'm a human being when I try to talk, thinking that they are simply beautiful with long hair and soft skin or handsome with a bulky six packs abs or how kind or how smart they are or how they make me laugh. To tell the truth I never thought I was confuse even from the beginning. I never like looking at someone with judgmental mind. Raised in a family that have two biased, judgmental parents open up my view on people. So those feelings that tells me when I like someone just come naturally to me and I embrace it.
ZaydenLana1998
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Jul 8, 2015
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There really isn't a specific way to know. You simply... Know! You simply are attracted to the other gender. If you're younger, it may simply be a bicurious phase, everyone has bicurious phases in their life. However, you may actually turn out to be gay, lesbian, or bisexual! And that is perfectly okay!
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