How do I know if I'm gay, lesbian, or bisexual?
Anonymous
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Jun 2, 2021
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Sometimes it can be hard to tell! what matters is that you're doing what feels right. and remember it's okay to experiment or just go without a label, you do what makes you feel like yourself. It may take time but that's okay! just be true to yourself!! it all depends on you. This is a loaded question in some ways and its okay to not know right away. talk to people who may also lgbtq+ and find people who may be experiencing similar things. sometimes our greatest allies are our peers. surround yourself in people your trust and be honest with yourself. I really hope this helps, good luck!
Anonymous
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Jul 14, 2021
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There are lots of different sexualitys and I believe it takes time to find one that suits you. lots of people change and some even prefer to stay unlabled so I think the most important part is staying true to yourself. Dont feel as if you have to fit into any certain category just be you. Then again if you want to be labelled that's fine, research never hurts and figure out who you don't and do like. Keep in mind this can change and that's absolutely fine, the way you feel for one person may be completely different for another of the same gender so make sure you keep your options open. Once you feel as if you know who you like feel free to look for sexualitys that match. There are countless different sexuality combinations with different names, some which don't even have any yet so don't worry if you cant find the perfect one. And remember sexuality can change so if you find the one that fits well done! but don't feel as if you are stuck with that forever. The most important part is being you (:
Anonymous
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Jun 19, 2015
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Gay is if you're male and only interested in other males. Lesbian is if you're female and only interested in other females. Unless you're not sure about your gender identity it should be pretty easy to eliminate at least one of these two. Bisexual is if you're attracted to two (or sometimes more) genders.
Moomoo93
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Jun 19, 2015
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This is hard. But I believe you know deep down. If you are looking at a person and you feel sexually attracted/aroused by them, and this is a repeat thing with that sex - then you are attracted to that sex. If this happens with both sexes, then you are bi! A lot of people can confuse what I call 'crushes' for being gay or lesbian, sometimes girls do genuinely experience what I would call a 'girl-crush' and boys a 'man-crush' but it doesn't necessarily mean you are gay/lesbian/bi. I think if over a long period of time you find yourself being sexually aroused about this gender, and also visualizing a relationship with a person of this sex then it is more significant.
You know in your heart what you really feel. And sometimes its very scary to admit these feelings because, inevitably, life is still hard for someone who is gay/lesbian/bisexual because the world (sadly) hasn't totally adjusted yet. But don't let that stop you identifying your feelings, they are there and they may not go away. Embrace, and love them, and you know what you feel.
HelperBee
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Jun 19, 2015
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Well, the first step is trying not to label yourself right away. It can be difficult not knowing what you "are", but it's best to feel 110% sure about WHAT you are feeling towards others, before you give yourself a label. A lot of research can help validate your feelings, or talking to accepting friends. Feelings first, labels later.
CinnaBunnyHelps
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Jun 20, 2015
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Others can’t tell you for sure whether you’re gay or not – that’s something that you have to figure out on your own. Some people say they have known that they were gay since they were little kids, and for others, it takes a little bit longer to come to that conclusion. It may not happen overnight, but it will happen.
Have you ever had a crush on your gender? Think about it – it sounds like you do, but you might not want to admit it. Are your feelings of attraction towards your gender stronger than your feelings for the opposite gender? Imagine yourself kissing a girl and then imagine kissing a guy – which is more exciting to you? Consider your future: would you rather be with a man or a woman? How often do you fantasize about girls? Do you think about girls more than guys?
Anonymous
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Jun 20, 2015
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Everyone's experiences are different but if you start finding yourself being physically or emotionally attracted to someone of the same sex then you most likely don't fit in the straight category. There are plenty of people who go through a phase where they want to "experiment" but if you can imagine yourself in a relationship with the same sex where you actually love each other then you're probably gay, lesbian, or bisexual. Hope this helps!
CasDeanSunshine93
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Jun 20, 2015
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It's about feelings and attractions. You just know. The way you think about and of the other person. If you're gay you would be more attracted to males obviously and if you are lesbian you would be more sexually attracted to females. And Incase of bisexual, both genders would equally attract you.
Most people consider it as a sexual attraction only, but in my opinion its all about who you decide to love...
Anonymous
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Jun 21, 2015
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From personal experience i just knew i liked men and women without any experimenting, it was more of a gut feeling. For a friend of mine they had to actually try things with people before they had a clue but not everyone is the same so the answer may not be as simple.
AloneAcneLove
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Jun 24, 2015
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Its actually based on your behaviour. We will do things that we don't usually does,use or goes to. The most common will be your MIND.
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