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How do I know if I am transgender?

Profile: Madelyn
Madelyn on Jan 29, 2017
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Labeling yourself as transgender is a very personal thing, in my opinion. I think if you believe you are, then take the time that you need to make any changes or come out. Don't feel pressured or rushed, because your emotional state is worth a lot, too. I do not believe there is a definition of how to know, but I think it is really up to the person feeling this way. There is no requirements to consider yourself a transgender. it is all up to you.. It is your body!
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Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Feb 25, 2017
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If you feel that your assigned sex is the opposite of what you feel you may be transgender. If your transgender you'd feel as if you were born in the wrong body.
Profile: sammyurie
sammyurie on Mar 12, 2017
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I myself am trans and it took me years to figure it out, but I finally realized it when I said to myself, I would be happier as a boy, I don't enjoy being biologically female. Watching youtubers like gigi gorgeous, justin blake, and sam collins really helped me discover who i am.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Mar 15, 2017
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Figuring out yourself can be very difficult. If you feel uncomfortable in your body, or going into certain bathrooms (as if you don't belong), that can be a sign. There is nothing wrong with being transgender. Most people who are trans feel a disassociation with using certain pronouns, or wearing certain clothes.
Profile: DannyEberth
DannyEberth on Apr 21, 2017
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Okay so I myself identify as transgender FTM. what made me finally realize it was when I started acting less feminine and wearing more boyish clothes etc. No matter what, be who you are, be yourself and don't let anyones opinion change that. Good luck!
Profile: TaranWanderer
TaranWanderer on Apr 26, 2017
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The best way to understand is to think about why you feel that way, look at what other people say their experience is like, and see how it compares to yourself. Gender is so fluid and just a concept, so there's no cut "X makes you transgender". Play around with your gender expression and figure out what feels best for you! There's so much diversity under the umbrella of transgender :) You may find you fit into one of the definitions, or you may not! And that's okay
Profile: paleblueeyes
paleblueeyes on May 3, 2017
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Do you feel comfortable with you body? How about the pronouns people use to refer to you? Does it bother you? If it's something you are questioning, the there's a good possibility you don't think of yourself as cisgender. It is good to know about other people's stories. Read about people who are transitioning and see if you can relate to any of them. It is always good to know you are not alone and that questioning is a big part of evolving as a human being.
Profile: Personalvendetta
Personalvendetta on Jun 2, 2017
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Have you ever felt wrong in your body? Or envied what the opposite gender had - mentally or physically? Childhood experiences, and curiosity could be simple triggers to accessing if you want to have the gender change. There are a lot of factors to consider when and if you truly are sure of feeling and being transgender. Social roles are also something you can base these feelings on partically. Do you fedl erong in your everyday societal roles or mental thoughts? Consider also how you feel with pronouns and switching to roles that are traditionally reserced for rhe opposite gender. Maybe experimenting with these conditions and factors, could lead you to the decision. The 7 cups community and I are available for this.
Profile: fancyWings27
fancyWings27 on Jul 9, 2017
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Being transgender is rare and special. If you have not yet gone through puberty or are experiencing puberty, it could be normal discomfort with your changing shape and appearance or emotional changes caused by hormone fluctuation. If you are post-puberty, and you feel discomfort with your gender, think about why and what causes that discomfort. There are so many ways to express yourself or align your behavior with you desired gender expression. You may not feel you match a specific definition of gender, but it is important to explore what makes you feel most comfortable. If you feel discomfort and need advice, seek expert help and consult a Gender Therapist to talk you through your experience, or find a community online that supports LGBTQA+ individuals.
Profile: Lucinda91
Lucinda91 on Jul 22, 2017
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Only you can decide if you are transgender. There is no wrong way to be transgender and no right way. Every trans person's experiences are different and only you can decide if transgender is the right label for you. Look online for trans people's stories and do some research on transgender. Make sure you come up with the decision on your own. Do not get anyone else to label you as this can only be decided by you.
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