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How do I fit into all these different labels for various sexualities?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jan 25, 2016
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1. Find one that works best for you! Labels are meant for people, not people for labels. If you don't feel like you fit with a certain label, then don't use it. 2. Forget labels! They aren't really necessary. Just use whatever words you want to describe how you feel.
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Profile: digitalwitness
digitalwitness on Feb 22, 2016
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First, you should remember that you don't always have to fit in. It's okay to be "outside of the box". But labels can be helpful sometimes, so if you want to find a label for yourself, you can read about different sexualities online and see if anything fits you. I'd also suggest talking to members of LGBTQ+ community - they can be very helpful. Also, think about who are you really attracted to. There are so many labels, you will for sure find something that fits you!
Profile: sarahsaurus14
sarahsaurus14 on May 31, 2016
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The very nature of the labels of sexualities means they clash- for example a person may identify as bisexual, because they are attracted to both women and men, however they may also identify as demi sexual- they need to develop an emotional bond before taking a step further into a relationship.
Profile: Mia1
Mia1 on Jul 4, 2016
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Try not to worry so much about labels. If you find something that you think fits, then great! But remember that nothing is set in stone, and you can always decide on a new label if your feelings change. The important thing is that you're happy and comfortable in your own skin.
Profile: HelpingHand315
HelpingHand315 on Aug 23, 2016
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Remember that it's okay not to label yourself. Labels are literally just words, don't be too pressured to actually label yourself. Some people feel better with labels some do without them. anyhow take your time to discover yourself and your sexuality. there s no rush.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Dec 26, 2017
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You can look around and see what you identify with; but also, feel free to just be as you are and do what you want to do :) Labels are ultimately just vague identifiers that can help us understand ourselves if we want to use them, but if they're more troublesome than helpful for you, then ditch 'em.
Profile: 0Beth0Listens0
0Beth0Listens0 on Jul 28, 2020
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I used to identify as bisexual, but as I became aware of the different genders on the spectrum, I realized I'm pansexual because there aren't any genders I'm not attracted to. I also identify as demisexual, because I'm attracted to people more after I get to know them, and not very much before that. sapiosexual means that I'm attracted to people based on their intelligence, and that's true of me too. I feel like put people put a lot of pressure on themselves to fit into one category or another, but there's nothing wrong with needing a few extra words to explain what you personally feel.
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