How do I express my gender identity in a way that fits with other parts of myself?

express your gender the way you feel is right. don't be something you are not, listen to yourself not the others around you. do things that make you feel comfortable with your gender identity. dress a new way, get a wig, cut your hair, change your name in a game for a day. talk to people close to you about it. be strong, you've got this, you can do it, do what you feel is right for you, and not anyone else, put yourself first, nobody else. don't let others put you down for how you express yourself. you've got this, good luck finding and expressing yourself!