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How do I come out to my parents?

Profile: dancingBeauty97
dancingBeauty97 on Jun 5, 2016
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you should make sure that you are in a safe environment and not in danger of your parents reacting in a bad way. Some parents could be understanding and calm which can make you feel more relaxed and feel better. Make sure you are alone with them if you are planning to come out in person. If you are doing it over the phone just make sure to tell you love them and you are still their daughter/son.
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Anonymous on Jun 8, 2016
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Try to talk to your friends first for support. I'm sure if you're parents love you they won't care if you're gay, a lesbian, or trans.
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Anonymous on Jun 8, 2016
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Fuck the whole idea of coming out. Why should we "come out" straight people don't come out. If they don't except who you are then they can go to he'll.
Profile: MatthewTheMagical
MatthewTheMagical on Jun 8, 2016
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It's very hard. If you want to be accepted, look for signs if they're homophobic. Unless you want them to treat you like crap, you'd unfortunately wouldn't be able to tell them. If they aren't, great! You can come out to them whichever way you want to.
Profile: strawberryblonde4315
strawberryblonde4315 on Jun 8, 2016
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Gather your parents in one location, so you don't have to do it again, take a deep breath and just say it. Be prepared for many different reactions. Knowing your parents you will most likely know how they'll react, but just be prepared.
Profile: seventypes
seventypes on Jun 9, 2016
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Be as honest as possible and try not to go into it with too many expectations. Remember that your parents are individual people and their reactions might not be predictable. If you can, tell someone when you plan on having the conversation, so they can check in on you after. And remember, you can always reach out for help from the many resources available to you!
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JaketheTransguyFTM on Jun 10, 2016
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Personally, it would be best to write a letter explaining everything and put it somewhere they will find it. Be somewhere safe when they read it.
Profile: WesternCanada1
WesternCanada1 on Jun 11, 2016
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Come out to your parents. Be yourself. Be honest to yourself. Tell them how you feel.. Keep in mind they love you no matter what. Sometimes it takes time for some parents to assimilate a new reality for them but they will eventually do it.
Profile: MaeveTheBrave
MaeveTheBrave on Jun 12, 2016
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Coming out to family can be a very difficult or a surprisingly easy process. It just depends on the people you're telling. With parents, however, just be careful that you're not still dependant on them if you think they will react badly when you tell them. But otherwise, just be honest with your parents, tell them all you think they need to know about your sexuality! Good luck!
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jun 14, 2016
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If you're afraid of coming out to your parents, a good first step is to talk to close friends you're comfortable with first. Maybe practice some things you'd like to say. It's scary at first but the weight off your chest is definitely worth it.
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