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How do I come out to my parents?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Feb 14, 2018
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The first thing you have to consider, is: Are you in a safe situation? What do you think the reaction of your parents will be? If you're sure you're safe, do it at a calm moment. Take your time to tell them.
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Profile: eliijaxes
eliijaxes on Feb 15, 2018
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You have to find the right time, go for a time when there is nothing else really going on, no stressful situations. Then, you can explain to them how you feel in a way that best suits you or them. For example, you could talk to them in person, you could write a letter, you can even call them. Stay calm when you do it, and if you have a hard time talking then definitely go over what you want to say beforehand. Keep it simple, but also make sure you say all you need to say, and if they have questions, calmly answer them. However, only come out if you feel it is safe to do so, or if it won't cause any situation to get worse or a new problem so show up.
Profile: starryWords2002
starryWords2002 on Mar 2, 2018
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you make them sit down. Make sure they aren't in a bad mood and nor are they stressed out. you tell them without beating around the bush. but while you do so, make sure you do not take names of your lover or friends, as if your parents are against it, they will assume it is your friends fault, and you wouldn't want that. explain it to them from the very start and don't be annoyed or offended by their reactions. it is a big news for them to take in too. give them time to understand and process it all.
Profile: penelopecelia
penelopecelia on Mar 4, 2018
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Assuming it will be safe to come out to your parents, any way you feel most comfortable. You know your parents and yourself best, so if you feel most comfortable with sending a text then do so! Be prepared if they would like a face to face chat though and remember that there are always people who will support you through coming out. Find a way you communicate best, for example a phone call, a letter or art etc. and use that as a means of coming out.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Mar 8, 2018
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It is, believe it or not, better to do so in public. That way they don't lash out, there are other people there. Ask them how they feel about it, first. If they don't like it, keep quite. If they are ok, tell them you asked because you are that gender/sexaulity.
Profile: will0thewisp
will0thewisp on Mar 14, 2018
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I believe the best way to do this is honestly, with respect to the feelings they might experience. Treat the encounter with the love and respect you'd like in return. Sit down somewhere neutral and comfortable, and tell your story. Let them know you're still the same person, you just want to be more open with your experiences and identity now that you're growing and maturing. Answer questions honestly and without judgement. If you're scared or nervous, be honest about that too - they're your parents, and they care about your feelings.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Mar 24, 2018
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If you're not sure that it will be safe to, don't risk your safety. Gage their reaction perhaps by mentioning LGBTQ+ celebrities or even friends, if you think that's appropriate. Evaluate why you want to come out to them.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Mar 28, 2018
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Everyone has their own way of coming out. No matter how you do it, make sure you’re safe. It’s best to know if your parents support the lgbtq+ community, and would be fine having their child be a part of it. Try to come out when your parents are in a good mood, and not in the middle of something important. I wish you the best of luck!
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Apr 6, 2018
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Coming out to your parents is always a tough decisions. A good way to start is to bring up the topic of LGBTQ+ with your parents to see how they respond. If they show that they are homophobic or anti-LGBTQ+, it might be a better idea to stay in the hypothetical closet. But ideally, they are supportive and you would come out some time during the conversation about the LGBTQ+ community. And be willing to answer any questions they might have about what you are coming out as.
Profile: walkthecisco
walkthecisco on Apr 11, 2018
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Make sure that they aren’t angry when you come out to them. Then just make sure you all are comfortable and then you just tell them. Their response may vary, but if they are amazing parents they will accept you for who you are.
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